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Men Are Mirrors, Part 2: Why Men Reflect Who You’re Being (Not What You’re Doing)

Welcome to Part 2 of our Men Are Mirrors series! Last week, we explored the truth behind why men mirror you—and today, we’re taking it deeper. Men don’t copy your actions; they respond to your energy, your beliefs, and the emotional truths you hold beneath the surface. If you’ve ever wondered why you keep attracting the same […]

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Welcome to the Blooming Podcast

If a CEO, an executive coach, and therapist had a baby that hosted a podcast show, you’d get me and the Blooming podcast bumpin' through your earphones every Wednesday.

ALL RECENT EPISODES:

Podcast

Ep. 156 – Men Are Your Mirror & Why Choosing Yourself Changes Your Reflection/Reality

Podcast

Ep. 155 – The Relationship Sabotage Loop (and how to break it)

Podcast

The 5 Sexy Spaces That Make Him Think About You All Day

Podcast

The Dating Stage That Makes a Good Man Want to Commit (Most Women Skip It)

Emotional Availability

He’s Not Rejecting You. He’s Rejecting the Relationship Dynamic You’re Showing Him

Podcast

How to Stay Calm, Confident, and Feminine Between Dates (So He Pursues You More)

Emotional Availability

Stop using a man to regulate your nervous system

Emotional Availability

Men don’t fall in love where they’re loved. They fall in love where they feel like men.

The Winner Method

The Winner Method

Emotional Availability

You Feel Calm with the Wrong Guy but Anxious with the Right One

The Open Heart Blueprint

You’re Reprogramming At Night. Now What?

Subconscious

She attracted her dream man but she still felt insecure, anxious and couldn’t trust him

The Open Heart Blueprint

Open Your Heart: Your Subconscious Success Map

The Open Heart Blueprint

BONUS: The Feminine Communication Code

Emotional Availability

He’s not withholding love — he’s mirroring you.

Module 1 - The FAS

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Emotional Availability

You Don’t Get What You Want, You Get What You Believe You Deserve

Podcast

Ep. 149: Gray Area Guys: The Most Dangerous Love Pattern

Emotional Availability

If He’s Being Good to You… It’s Because He Chose Himself First

Emotional Availability

You Don’t Feel Safe Unless You’re in Control—And That’s Blocking Him From Seeing You As A Potential Companion

Emotional Availability

He Doesn’t Need to Date You for Years to Know You’re the One

Dating

You don’t need to change yourself. You need to change your type.

Emotional Availability

How Men Decide They’re Ready For A Relationship

Emotional Availability

High Standards or Hidden Blocks Against Love?

Journal

High standards don’t scare emotionally available men—they attract them.

Journal

The Perfectionism Trap: How Unmet Emotional Needs Lead You to Chase an Impossible Standard in Love

Emotional Availability

How I Stopped Settling, Broke Free from Toxic Patterns and Finally Got the Love I Deserve

Emotional Availability

Are You Emotionally Unavailable and Pushing Away Good Men?

Podcast

Ep. 146 – The Beliefs You Must Change For Love

Podcast

Ep. 145 – Are You Emotionally Unavailable & Pushing Away Good Men?

Podcast

Ep. 147 – The EXACT Process That Reprogrammed My Subconscious for Love, Trust and Confidence

Emotional Availability

You Don’t Have to Prove, Fix, or Change to Be Loved: A Biblical Truth for Women

Emotional Availability

Your “Open-Heart” Makes Him Feel Powerful…Like A MAN

Dating

Why He’s Pulling Away (It’s Not What You Think)

Podcast

Ep. 144 – He Doesn’t Want Your Love. He Needs Your Trust & Respect.

Podcast

Do You Want A Husband Or Do You Want To Be A Wife?

Podcast

Master Your Singleness & Trust Masculine Energy

Attraction

You’re Focused On What You Don’t Want

Podcast

The Winner Method Masterclass

Dating

“Make Him Miss You” Is the Worst Advice You’ve Been Following

Dating

The Real Reason You’re NOT Interested In Men That Like And Pursue You

Podcast

Ep. 140 – Men Aren’t Afraid of Commitment. They’re Afraid To Commit to the Wrong Woman

Dating

Men Don’t Love B!tche$

Podcast

Ep. 139 – Don’t Be Hard to Get. Be Challenging to Have.

Dating

Are You Bringing Out the Worst in Men But Want To Bring Out the Winner in Them?

Podcast

Ep. 138 –  I Used to Bring Out the Worst in Men…Now I Bring Out the Winner in Them

Attraction

Stop Selling Yourself And Instead Help Him Buy

Podcast

Stop Selling Yourself And Instead Help Him Buy!

Attraction

Are You Doing THIS and Causing Him to Pull Away

Dating

If He’s Not Asking To See You, It’s Probably Because Of This…

Secure Attachment

Stop Worrying What He Thinks About You & Start Asking If You Even Like Him

Secure Attachment

10 Signs He’s A Secure Masculine Man

Secure Attachment

12 Habits Of A Securely Attached Woman

Secure Attachment

Into Him One Day, Have “The Ick” the Next?

Secure Attachment

You Can’t Make Him Want You More by Wanting Him More

Secure Attachment

Why You Keep Attracting (and Settling for) Men With “Potential”

Secure Attachment

If I’m Vulnerable, He’ll Think I’m Too Needy

Feminine Energy

He Needs Your Respect. Not Your Love.

Journal

10 Scripts To Breakup With Mr. Wrong

Podcast

Ep. 136 – 10 Ways To Respectfully Tell Him You’re Not Interested

Dating

4 Ways I Date To Attract Godly Men

Podcast

Ep. 135 – 4 Ways I  Date To Attract Godly Men

Journal

Date Slow & Breakup Fast

Podcast

134 – My Testimony: From “Self-Healer” To The Healer Himself

Podcast

Ep. 133 – The “With Or Without You” Vibe (And Why It’s A Man Magnet)

Podcast

Ep.132 – 3 Big Misconceptions Keeping You From Mr. Right

Journal

You Need A Godly Man

Podcast

Ep.131 – You Don’t Trust Masculine Energy To Take Care Of You

Journal

Why Feminine Women Are Attracted To Masculine Men

Feminine Energy

He Won’t Love You More, If You’re More Successful

Journal

LIE: When You Meet Mr. Right, THEN You’ll Finally Be “Happy”

Podcast

Ep. 129 – Why You Keep Picking Men With “Potential” & Exactly How To Stop

Feminine Energy

4 Years Ago I Was Single, Super Lonely & Drank My Anxiety Away

Feminine Energy

You Keep Picking Men With “Potential”

Feminine Energy

Stop Worrying What He Thinks, Focus On What YOU Want

Podcast

Ep. 128 – Exactly How Mr. Right Will Fall In Love With You

Feminine Energy

It’s not you. It’s your dating approach

Feminine Energy

You wanting a relationship is the reason he’s not pursuing you

Podcast

Ep. 126 – Exactly How To Attract A Masculine Man (And Repel Emotionally Unavailable Boys)

Feminine Energy

Does He See You As A Companion Or Competitor?

Podcast

Ep. 125 – 4 Mistakes That Are Keeping You Single

The Open Heart Blueprint

The Audio Files!

Module 5 - The FAS

BONUS MODULE: The Never To-Do List

The Open Heart Blueprint

OPEN HIS HEART: He Needs To Give & Win – Module 4, Video 2

The Open Heart Blueprint

OPEN HIS HEART: He Needs to Give & Win – Module 4, Video 1

The Open Heart Blueprint

OPEN HIS HEART: He Needs A Challenge – Module 3, Video 2

The Open Heart Blueprint

OPEN HIS HEART: He Needs A Challenge – Module 3, Video 1

The Open Heart Blueprint

OPEN HIS HEART: He Needs To Pursue – Module 2, Video 2

The Open Heart Blueprint

OPEN HIS HEART: He Needs To Chase: Module 2, Video 1

The Open Heart Blueprint

OPEN HIS HEART: His & Her Love Recipe – Module 1, Video 3

The Open Heart Blueprint

The Biology Of Love – Module 1, Video 2 –

The Open Heart Blueprint

OPEN HIS HEART: Module 1, Video 1

The Open Heart Blueprint

Open Your Heart, Open His Heart – The Open-Heart Blueprint

The Open Heart Blueprint

START HERE: Welcome To The Open-Heart Blueprint

The Feminine Leadership System

The Self Organization Model

Podcast

Ep. 124 – How I Pushed My Husband Away

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Ep. 123: When Are You Marriage Material?

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Ep. 121 – Marriage Material: A Singles Series

Feminine Energy

7 Ways To Follow Him & Stay In Your Feminine

Meet the coach

Hi, I'm Anabell 
Feminine Leadership Coach

I was there before. So I totally get it. But it wasn’t until I mastered my femininity that my love life completely transformed.

From attracting emotionally unavailable me, settling for liars, losers and little boys and always feeling insecure & under-loved to finally feeling confident when dating, meeting amazing quality men that are masculine, kind and loving that are committed & loyal, I owe it all to the work I now teach.

creator of SEgura, the Feminine Attraction System &
 Host of the Blooming podcast @anabell.ingleton

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