To follow is “to move behind and in the same direction”. This essentially means you see and acknowledge his plans, agree with them and move with him towards that destination. In other words, what you’re communicating to him by following him is “what you want for your life is great. I agree with it and I support you.”
This is HUGE for a man. This lets him know you trust him and makes him feel respected. Men go and stay in places they feel respected.
Conversely, if a man is taking you down a dark alley with no plans, explanation or understanding, you will feel hesitation to follow.
Women tend to not follow when the destination is not clear, you don’t like the destination or don’t understand why or how it benefits you.
Notice if this is preventing you from following him. You may just need clarity, more information or understanding. Talk to your partner and learn!
Below are 7 ways that allow him to feel that you are in your feminine and following him.
1.Support his leadership: Respect his decisions and guidance,
2.Encourage his passions: Show interest in his interests and passions
3.Be his cheerleader: Offer words of encouragement
4.Provide emotional support: Be there for him emotionally, offering a listening ear and empathetic understanding when he needs to share his thoughts and feelings.
5.Respect his autonomy: Allow him space to make his own choices and decisions, respecting his independence and autonomy.
6.Follow his lead in social settings: Allow him to take the lead in social situations, whether it’s introducing you to others, deciding on plans, or navigating conversations.
7.Show gratitude: Express gratitude for his efforts and contributions to the relationship, whether it’s through small gestures, acts of kindness, or supportive actions.
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