A man values things that require his:
Time, effort and the need for him to reach and maintain a high standard and consistency.
He knows that good things take time, good things are valuable, they’re expensive, you gotta pay with time, effort and money. His resources.
He understands his need to work in order to obtain the prize, status or respect. He desires the challenge for how it makes him a better and stronger man.
When he earns a job, he doesn’t expect to get benefits until after the 90-day probation period.
So when a woman gives him something too quickly, he can subconsciously deem it or her as low value.
When someone doesn’t have high standards…has low standards or settles for anything, this again rings as low value.
You see….Men want things that give them status in society.
Things that give men status are things of high value.
Having a good woman that can be his wife is like winning the ultimate prize.
Promiscuity is a characteristic of a toy used or played with for temporary fun.
He’ll pull it out here and there when he’s bored or wants some fun, but surely he will not proudly share her. He will hide her in the cabinet, or the darkness of the bedroom.
A good woman that’s deserves the position of wife, however, is worthy to be brought out into the light of the world as she gives him peace, strength and status.
A man does NOT want a woman that attaches to him fast, likes him quickly without him using any effort to gain that affection.
A woman worthy of being a wife understands the value of her mind, spirit AND body. She’s private. She doesn’t share it with every man.
And because she values herself and uses self control and shares her values and standards clearly, he values her too.
Do you want to be played with or celebrated? The choice is yours.
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