Ep. 125 – 4 Mistakes That Are Keeping You Single

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I help single, strong and successful  women undo unhealthy masculine patterns and master their feminine design so you can attract, connect with and keep a loving and loyal man. 

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In this video, I share the 4 misconceptions single, strong, independent and successful women make about men that are keeping you single.

In this eye-opening episode of the Blooming Podcast, I delve into the common pitfalls that can hinder strong, successful women in their relationships. Discover how understanding and embracing natural dynamics can lead to more fulfilling and lasting connections.

✨ Key Takeaways ✨

  • Let Men Pursue: Men are biologically inclined to enjoy the thrill of the chase. Allowing them to initiate contact and pursue you can create a healthier dynamic.
  • Value Effort and Time: Men appreciate relationships where effort and time are invested. Giving physical intimacy or trust too quickly can diminish your perceived value.
  • Avoid Early Intimacy: Early sexual activity can lead to emotional bonding for women, causing neediness and insecurity while blinding them to potential red flags.
  • Showcase Femininity: Leading with masculine energy or showcasing material success can make men feel unnecessary or emasculated. Embrace your feminine side to allow men to feel needed and to demonstrate their abilities.
  • Avoid Possessiveness: Excessive questioning and possessiveness, often driven by past hurts, can make men feel judged and defensive. Focus on understanding and balancing masculine and feminine energies.
  • Feminine Attraction System: Learn about the program designed to help women attract loving, loyal, and provider-type men while avoiding behaviors that push them away.

Watch the full video podcast episode on Youtube: https://youtu.be/szE2Sx1anPs

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Misconception 1 –  You think you need to make it known you’re interested & tell him you like him & give him your love and trust right away. 

Misconception 2 – You think you need to give your body so he knows how attractive and sexy you are. You think that if he is sexually attracted to you, he will want you and like you. 

Misconception 3 – You think you need to lead with your success, independence & titles, degrees and career. You think this will make him see you as wife material and a good potential long term partner. 
Misconception 4 – You think you need to ask a lot of questions, investigate him, get all the details about his past, relationships, trauma so you can protect yourself.


  • Learn what he wants to do instead.
  • Why men don’t want you to pay another man’s debt!
  • The 3 ways a man feels challenged
  • What the possum affect is and why you should avoid it.
  • Why leading with your success works against you.

Resources For You

Want to finally attract masculine men that are loving and loyal? Learn the feminine dating strategy that he MUST EXPERIENCE with you in order to fall in love & commit all on his own!  The Feminine Attraction System   CLICK HERE TO LEARN MORE

Listen to the Blooming Podcast  where I share about all things feminine, healthy masculine, behavior change and mental and emotional healing here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/blooming/id1528814692

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