Ep. 129 – Why You Keep Picking Men With “Potential” & Exactly How To Stop

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I help single, strong and successful  women undo unhealthy masculine patterns and master their feminine design so you can attract, connect with and keep a loving and loyal man. 

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Hey there, and welcome to this week’s blooming podcast episode. I’m so glad you’re here.

If you’re a woman, a strong, successful, smart, independent woman, and you find yourself always dating guys that have potential, you’re dating guys that they’re either have all their stuff together, but they don’t know how to love you, they know how to love you, but they do not have their stuff together, or they have neither and you’re just picking the guys that are just, like, completely unavailable in every way, this episode is for you.

I’m gonna explain to you why you’re choosing guys with potential and you’re not choosing the guys that you really consciously super, super, very intentionally want, the guys that deliver on all their promises. You know these guys, healthy, secure, masculine. They can protect. They provide. They’re loving, and they’re loyal. I’m gonna explain exactly why this is happening. Keep on watching. Keep on listening.

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  • Why you choosing the men that can’t love you
  • The 3 different types of men with “potential”
  • Why you subconsciously attach to men with potential
  • How you stop subconsciously attaching to men
  • 2 ways to finally feel secure within yourself (a secure man or create it within yourself)


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