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Welcome to the Blooming Podcast! Today, we have a very special guest joining us, Dennis Vetrano, a highly experienced divorce attorney. He share expert advice on relationships, parenting and divorce on his social media with more than 210K followers.

In this interview, Dennis shares valuable insights on why we tend to ignore relationship issues and the importance of effective communication in nurturing healthy connections. We challenge the notion of finding a soulmate and explore the idea that multiple soulmates can exist, emphasizing the need for personal growth and self-love before seeking a lifelong partner.

Join us as we discuss the significance of being comfortable with solitude and the role it plays in building fulfilling relationships. Dennis also highlights the importance of patience when it comes to choosing the right life partner, and how taking the time to truly know someone can lead to long-lasting happiness.

FROM THIS EPISODE-

“Be comfortable loving you and loving your life before you can possibly think about loving anybody else. Being alone? Just them. It’s all about them. Just loving them. And then, then you’ll be happy. We’re gonna sound like repetitive, but that makes sense. But you have to be happy with being alone in order to be happy to be with somebody. Otherwise, what do you see happening? If they’re not happy alone, what are we doing? 


“And that’s the thing about communication, it’s not just about talking. It’s about actively listening, understanding, and seeking clarification. It’s about being present and engaged in the conversation, not just waiting for your turn to speak. Communication is a two-way street, and both partners need to be committed to open and honest dialogue for it to work effectively.”

“I think you need to be patient finding the person… spend a long enough time so you get a really good feel for what this person is like through the thick and the thin, the good times, the bad times, like see how they react to different circumstances.”


RESOURCES FOR YOU:

-Listen to The Divorce Stories Podcast, CLICK HERE 

-Julie Teffeteller- How To Save Your Marriage on The Divorce Stories Podcast, CLICK HERE

Connect Dennis Vetrano on 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drvlaw/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drvlaw?_t=8dkopfK3Pna&_r=1

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-Get coached via all the great videos on my YouTube channel HERE

-To connect with  me on Instagram, go here: @anabell.ingleton or @bloomingpodcastshow



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ABOUT BLOOMING PODCAST:

Hosted by Anabell Ingleton, a multiple 6-figure earning Coach, she shares new episodes every Wednesday on all things personal transformation, growth and evolving into and connecting to your Highest Self. Anabell shares concepts, tips and actual tools for you to use in your life today to help you remove the blocks that are keeping you fully blooming and creating the dream life you deserve. Anabell has solo episodes as well as other amazing coaches, entrepreneurs and her past clients themselves sharing what they do to fully bloom and change their lives. Anabell has served hundreds of clients in her 1:1 coaching practice where she helped men and women heal from the effects of stressful past experiences and used those thousands of hours of deep knowledge to create Bloom, a group coaching program where she helps women grow their confidence and self-love so they can go from “I can’t do that, I’m not “insert positive attribute here”….. to a confident, happy and secure woman who’s in charge of her schedule, decisions, relationships and future.





“To all you amazing listeners out there, it’s official: We’ve hit the magical number – 100 episodes of the Blooming Podcast! Can you feel the excitement in the air? 🥳

I started this podcast in 2020, and in 2023, I will hit my 100-episode mark today. I couldn’t have done it without your support and love. Thank you for being part of this podcasting adventure!”

 I am celebrating 100 episodes with you all today with this special episode. I am sharing all the highs and lows of my journey, how starting the podcast helped me build self-awareness, confidence and reach so many people to serve them and what is my future content plan for all of you.

Tune into this episode to join me in celebration. Keep listening, and don’t forget to spread the word!



FROM THIS EPISODE-

“if you wanna get into podcasting and podcasting feels a little too scary at first, start recording into your phone and get comfortable with that. Get comfortable with hearing your own voice, because you have to hear your own voice if you listen to the podcast.”

“Motivation doesn’t just come right naturally, discipline is what gets you to feel more motivated. Discipline always wins, and when you’re disciplined, it just means choosing that this is important. You understand the why and you’ll show up. And, I’m declaring that my why is very, very big. It’s important, and I wanna show up for you guys. So thank you, for being here for the hundred episodes.”

“Podcasting is really about, Showing up, sharing your ideas and doing it bravely and doing it courageously. And I love that I’ve been able to do that for a hundred episodes. Mostly I learned that I can do hard things. So many times, I wanted to give up and quit the podcast and say, Ugh. I get a couple thousand downloads an episode and that’s great, but like, no one cares. Who cares? And I realize like, no. Um,, I’m glad I continued showing up. I’m glad I saw the value in it.”

“I just wanted to say a big thank you because this podcast has really grown me. It’s taught me so much about myself. It’s helped me with my business. It’s helped me reach a lot of people. It’s helped me get a lot of clients. It’s helped me earn money. it’s taught me discipline, it’s taught me about motivation. it’s just taught me so much. And then it’s helped me serve a lot of you guys.

QUICK HIGHLIGHTS FROM THIS EPISODE:

  • Thank You notes for all of you 
  • My three-year podcasting journey in brief
  • Why starting a podcast was one of my best decision
  • Scared to Start Your Podcast? Listen to my ideas on how you tackle it.
  • It’s discipline and commitment to your “WHY” that keeps you moving.
  • What can you expect from future episodes of the Bloom Podcast?

RESOURCES FOR YOU:

-Watch this episode on Youtube HERE

-Love videos podcast, Go watch the video Podcast of this episode HERE

-Listen to my fav episode- Ep96: Taking Care Of The Business (The Self-Organization Model)  HERE

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-Want to work with me in the BLOOM coaching program? Click HERE to get on the waitlist or join now if we are enrolling!

-Want to read my private journal entry?! Thriving, the weekly journal entry I send out to my private subscribers every Thursday is where I share all my personal and professional moments that messed me up but made me thrive. Click here to subscribe and read my latest entry. 

-Get coached via all the great videos on my YouTube channel HERE

-To connect with  me on Instagram, go here: @anabell.ingleton or @bloomingpodcastshow

Enjoy the show?

Don’t miss an episode. Follow on Spotify and subscribe via Apple Podcasts, Stitcher or RSS.

ABOUT BLOOMING PODCAST:

Hosted by Anabell Ingleton, a multiple 6-figure earning Coach, she shares new episodes every Wednesday on all things personal transformation, growth and evolving into and connecting to your Highest Self. Anabell shares concepts, tips and actual tools for you to use in your life today to help you remove the blocks that are keeping you fully blooming and creating the dream life you deserve. Anabell has solo episodes as well as other amazing coaches, entrepreneurs and her past clients themselves sharing what they do to fully bloom and change their lives. Anabell has served hundreds of clients in her 1:1 coaching practice where she helped men and women heal from the effects of stressful past experiences and used those thousands of hours of deep knowledge to create Bloom, a group coaching program where she helps women grow their confidence and self-love so they can go from “I can’t do that, I’m not “insert positive attribute here”….. to a confident, happy and secure woman who’s in charge of her schedule, decisions, relationships and future.

Welcome back to another episode of the Blooming Podcast!

Have you ever noticed how even if you put 100% effort into something, one tiny thing goes wrong, and your mood gets ruined so badly that you want to quit everything?

The same happened to me when I was working to upgrade Bloom to make it more better and faster for my clients. I just wanted to add a new module but my made mind generalization that Bloom is not worth, and next sec, I started overthinking even though all my clients got great results.

I know this happened with all of you, so in this episode of the Blooming podcast, I wanted to share with you “All or Nothing Thinking”, why did it happen and how can you overcome this part.

If you want to know what transformation I’d have if I joined Bloom and stalked my website, listen to this podcast, you will get all the deets. If you would like to join, click here for the waitlist.

Listen to the episode for all the details.



FROM THIS EPISODE-

“All or nothing thinking is great when you know what you want and you make a decision to get it, but you also need to be very, very specific about what you want and what you’re gonna do to change it so that your mind doesn’t go and overgeneralize and tries to  burn down the house because you’re gonna get a new house and you say the new house is better. “

“When if you believe that somebody doesn’t love you or doesn’t ever tell you they love you, doesn’t ever do things for you, doesn’t ever make you feel good, always says mean things to you. Your subconscious is gonna say is this friend or foe?  Is this friend or enemy? …..”

QUICK HIGHLIGHTS FROM THIS EPISODE:

  • The story behind this podcast episode
  • When your thoughts don’t support your desires
  • Your brain makes generalizations of what you believe
  • Overgeneralization can create negative thoughts & results
  • Your goal should be specific (know the psychology behind it)

Resources For You-

-Link to Profit First Book – HERE

-Link to my CPA firm Fit For Profit – Shannon

-Listen to the- Ep96: Taking Care Of The Business (The Self-Organization Model)  HERE

-Listen to my Client Experience- Ep98-  Bloom Client Story:  Desiree C. 

– Read How Online Bullying Almost Made Me Quit Coaching, HERE

-Want to work with me in the BLOOM coaching program? Click HERE to get on the waitlist or join now if we are enrolling!

-Want to read my private journal entry?! Thriving, the weekly journal entry I send out to my private subscribers every Thursday is where I share all my personal and professional moments that messed me up but made me thrive. Click here to subscribe and read my latest entry. 

-To connect with  me on Instagram, go here: @anabell.ingleton

Enjoy the show?

Don’t miss an episode. Follow on Spotify and subscribe via Apple Podcasts, Stitcher or RSS.

And if you love the episode,  Leave me a review in Apple Podcasts so  others can find it too. Your feedback helps other listeners find the show and encourages me to keep creating content.

Thank you!

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Welcome back to another episode of the Blooming Podcast!

In today’s episode , I’m excited to share with you an first time interview with a Bloom member to give you a glimpse inside the program. I am talking to Bloom’s Client Desiree about her experience inside Bloom.

Why has she joined Bloom?

How has it changed her life?

The way she feels inside bloom…

Desiree’s story started when she turned 30 and felt empty and wanted more than a 9 to 5 in her life. After working in Bloom, she has gained so much trust and confidence in herself to take a leap to move forward with her content creation journey. Now she is making more money and building the life she always wanted.

If you want to know what transformation I’d have if I joined Bloom and stalked my website, listen to this podcast, you will get all the deets. If you would like to join, click here for the waitlist.

Listen to the episode for all the details.

FROM THIS EPISODE-

“ I’m starting to see that there’s so many things that can be changed, but for me it was the main thing was my income. When I started Bloom, I was full-time insurance…..Because I understand that I can stand up for myself is now I’m just creating my life.  I am on the way to become a content creator, you know, and then, but I have a feeling that by the end of the program, I’ll be sorry to my own business.”

“ I live my life with bloom in mind. A hundred percent.  It’s like engraved in my,  brain. And I love that. I’m so happy that that’s happening because  before it was all the negative talk. Before it was all, , you can’t. Now it’s just kind of , how can you?”

QUICK HIGHLIGHTS FROM THIS EPISODE:

  • Get to know about the Desiree
  • The vicious cycle of inaction and how Bloom has solved this?
  • 9 to 5 insurance agent to fulfilling her passion for being a makeup content creator
  • Bloom isn’t just about digging into the past or blaming someone,
  • What support Desiree feels inside Bloom (that you can have too)

Resources For You-

-Want to work with me in the BLOOM coaching program? Click HERE to get on the waitlist or join now if we are enrolling!

-Want to read my private journal entry?! Thriving, the weekly journal entry I send out to my private subscribers every Thursday is where I share all my personal and professional moments that messed me up but made me thrive. Click here to subscribe and read my latest entry. 

-To connect with  me on Instagram, go here: @anabell.ingleton

Enjoy the show?

Don’t miss an episode. Follow on Spotify and subscribe via Apple Podcasts, Stitcher or RSS.

And if you love the episode,  Leave me a review in Apple Podcasts so  others can find it too. Your feedback helps other listeners find the show and encourages me to keep creating content.

Thank you!

Have you ever wondered…”WHY is it that sometimes I feel like I’m split…or I’m torn? I wanna do one thing and another part of me wants to do something completely different? Why is that? And why is it hard for me to choose? Why can’t I make a decision? Why does it feel so difficult?”

If your answer is, Yeahh! That’s me, Welcome to the Blooming Podcast! In this episode, I’m giving you an inside look at your internal system.  I’m explaining exactly why that happen with you, how can find your cause and how to fix it. 

I also discussed how my client’s overspending habit loop kept her from starting a saving habit until we sat down, worked, and found ways to heal her broken internal links.

Tune in now to get the answers you need!

FROM THIS EPISODE-

“In bloom, what we do is we find out what are these, we call them maladaptive behaviors. it was a defensive behavior that you learned to do because Robert broke up with you. Now we’re just gonna be surface level with everybody. Now I go through life being surface, surface, surface forever. But now you’re realizing life feels so empty Anabell because I don’t have any deep connections with anybody cuz I’m so guarded, I’m so surface with everybody.”

“You wanna be the one always driving your car. And the only way that you can do that is if you calm these parts down, know all of them and know  How they live in this world because you just don’t wanna surviving. You wanna thrive….like living out your best life and living out your destiny…”

QUICK HIGHLIGHTS FROM THIS EPISODE:

  • Your body is made up of wonderful pieces of puzzle inside of you
  • What happens when your internal pieces break down and just keep floating inside you?
  • How are parts and limiting beliefs created?
  • Your limiting schema is causing you to live in fear
  • To heal, your broken internal pieces need completion 
  • My client’s Story- she stopped her overspending habit  by finding and fixing her internal pieces
  • Find out what is your maladaptive behavior



LISTEN TO THE EPISODE FOR ALL THE DETAILS



Resources For You-

-Ep. 78 – How I coach And Why?-Behind The Scene : CLICK HERE TO LISTEN 

How Parts and Limiting Beliefs Are Created? Download the pdf to understand. LINK HERE

-Watch the video podcast of this episode on the Youtube channel, GO HERE!

-Want to work with me in the  BLOOM coaching program?Click HERE to get on the waitlist or join now if we are enrolling!

-Want to read my private journal? Thriving is my weekly journal entry I send out to my private subscribers every Thursday where I share all my personal and professional moments that messed me up but made me thrive. CLICK HERE to subscribe and read my latest entry. 

-To follow me on Instagram, go here: @anabell.ingleton



Enjoy the show?

Don’t miss an episode. Follow on Spotify and subscribe via Apple Podcasts, Stitcher or RSS.

And if you love the episode,  Leave me a review in Apple Podcasts so  others can find it too. Your feedback helps other listeners find the show and encourages me to keep creating content.

Thank you!



6 Lessons I Learned From My 6-Figure Launch

I’m back with another new episode of the Blooming podcast! 

Last month, I launched my group coaching program Bloom, which helps women find and remove hidden limiting beliefs that cause them to self-sabotage their life. The launch went AMAZING! I made six figures, and many women joined the program. You probably saw all this on my story, content, and podcast.

Now in this episode, I want to take you behind the scenes and share 6 lessons I learned from my 6-figure launch.

And yes, It doesn’t start with the idea of working hard but resting more. You can’t just work hard all the time – you need to rest, too. If you don’t have any energy, none of your tactics or strategies will work. You’ll look dull and fail to transfer energy to your client to buy.

Your work starts even before launching your products – focusing on making your products great, understanding where your clients are and what they want. It’s easy to just create a program and sell it, but you have to constantly improve it. And this is what I focused much on while creating my product. I have really listened to my clients, focused on their journey and created a great product that actually helps them. 

From the episode- 

” I think when we’re launching or when we’re selling to people, we get focused on ourselves; we just really think about ourselves and our goals. Like how much money do I wanna make? That doesn’t matter.

 You can have that as like a North Star, but you really need to be focusing on the person that you’re serving, the problem that they have, the solution that they need, and the product that you have that’s gonna fix that problem.”

One lesson, I have said is might weird for all of you, but I strongly believe in it now.

“Social media has made us habitual getting things for free that we forget the meaning of business is to ‘transact’. “

Many entrepreneurs just focus on giving so much away for free and making their audience habitual, and then wonder why nobody is buying back. But what I do is not just fix a band-aid on a wound, but take my client on a whole journey and show them how my products can help them never get hurt and fix the wound totally.. 

I have shared valuable lessons I learned from my previous launch that wasn’t as successful as I had hoped, what I have improved, what work I did, and some NO BS business truth for all of you. 

This episode is full of information, lessons, and insights that you’re going to LOVE.

Listen to the episode to get all the DEETS!



QUICK HIGHLIGHTS FROM THIS EPISODE:

  • When rest is good, work is great. 
  • Get better, not bigger. Focus more on your current client than the new one.
  • “Failure inspires winners.  Failure defeats losers.”
  • Success always follows failures.
  • work smart and really focus on today so you can rest abundantly tomorrow
  • Don’t give people samples, give them breakthroughs (This is such a weird one but true)
  • Make your service great and people will find you. 

LISTEN TO THE EPISODE FOR ALL THE DETAILS

CONNECT WITH ME-

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/anabell.ingleton

Website: https://anabellingleton.com/

Watch the video recording of episode on my YouTube channel here!

Resources For You-

Ready to heal? Want to work with me in the BLOOM coaching program? Click here to join now! Enrollment is officially open.

Interested in finding out more about the new The Trauma Informed Coach program where I’m helping coaches create content that easily attracts leads, sell and close with confidence and deliver your coaching consistently and with big results, CLICK HERE to learn more.

Want to get on the private newsletter for CEOs that want to sell with ease and deliver with confidence….CLICK HERE so you don’t miss out on a thing, especially when I formally launch The Trauma-Informed CEO program.

Enjoy the show?

Don’t miss an episode. Follow on Spotify and subscribe via Apple PodcastsStitcher or RSS.

Leave me a review in Apple Podcasts

READY TO WORK WITH ME? JOIN BLOOM NOW  HERE

Welcome back to another episode of the Blooming Podcast!

In this episode, I want to talk to you guys about the truth about your comfort zone. I’ve talked about this before on the podcast, but today I am going to discuss it a little differently.

So many people in the world stay in their comfort zone with the hopes of feeling safe and that’s so fair.  

But the downside of not moving forward is that you miss out on the wonderful results that could have come from doing what created that discomfort zone.

“When you stay in the comfort zone, you give up the possibility of what you can get if you go into the discomfort zone! There’s a lot of big ROIs there.  You’re thriving, you’re with people, you can work, you can make money.”

Also, Bloom is opening enrollment in just a few weeks, for those who are ready to heal, remove their mental blocks, and finally take action on their goals. I will also share some of my clients’ experiences on the podcast episode. So if you are not on the waitlist, get yourself on the list Here.

Quick highlights from this episode:

  • Why do I believe the cost of success is discomfort?
  • Why do people stay in their comfort zones?
  • How it feels to be in comfort zone where you feel fine but in reality, you are just in survival mode and not living your life

Listen to the episode for all the details

Resources For You-

Ready to heal?  Want to work with me in the  BLOOM coaching program? Click HERE to get on the waitlist.

Interested in finding out more about the new The Trauma Informed Coach program where I’m helping coaches create content that easily attract leads, sell and close with confidence and deliver your coaching consistently and with big results, CLICK HERE to learn more. 

Want to get on the private newsletter for CEO’s that want to sell with ease and deliver with confidence….CLICK HERE so you don’t miss out on a thing, especially when I formally launch The Trauma Informed CEO program.

Connect With Me-

To follow me on Instagram, go here. https://www.instagram.com/anabell.ingleton/

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Hi, I’m Anabell, Trauma-Informed Coach

I’m Sex And the City obsessed, Audible addicted (I love a great audiobook) and will talk your ear off about all things subconscious mind.  

With over 20 years worth of self-development books read under my belt, I should’ve known I was destined to be a Coach. But it wasn’t that straight of a road for your girl. 

The amount of times I quote rap music lyrics daily, you’d think I would be a creative, not a Coach. But I bring my creativity, ventral energy and Pisces vibe to my practice. We’re healing...it doesn’t need to be painful! 

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Welcome back to another episode of the Blooming Podcast!

In this episode, I want to talk to you guys about the truth about your comfort zone. I’ve talked about this before on the podcast, but today I am going to discuss it a little differently.

So many people in the world stay in their comfort zone with the hopes of feeling safe and that’s so fair.  

But the downside of not moving forward is that you miss out on the wonderful results that could have come from doing what created that discomfort zone.

“When you stay in the comfort zone, you give up the possibility of what you can get if you go into the discomfort zone! There’s a lot of big ROIs there.  You’re thriving, you’re with people, you can work, you can make money.”

Also, Bloom is opening enrollment in just a few weeks, for those who are ready to heal, remove their mental blocks, and finally take action on their goals. I will also share some of my clients’ experiences on the podcast episode. So if you are not on the waitlist, get yourself on the list Here.

Quick highlights from this episode:

  • Why do I believe the cost of success is discomfort?
  • Why do people stay in their comfort zones?
  • How it feels to be in comfort zone where you feel fine but in reality, you are just in survival mode and not living your life

Listen to the episode for all the details

Resources For You-

Ready to heal?  Want to work with me in the  BLOOM coaching program? Click HERE to get on the waitlist.

Interested in finding out more about the new The Trauma Informed Coach program where I’m helping coaches create content that easily attract leads, sell and close with confidence and deliver your coaching consistently and with big results, CLICK HERE to learn more. 

Want to get on the private newsletter for CEO’s that want to sell with ease and deliver with confidence….CLICK HERE so you don’t miss out on a thing, especially when I formally launch The Trauma Informed CEO program.

Connect With Me-

To follow me on Instagram, go here. https://www.instagram.com/anabell.ingleton/

Enjoy the show?

Don’t miss an episode. Follow on Spotify and subscribe via Apple PodcastsStitcher or RSS.

Leave me a review in Apple Podcasts

READY TO WORK WITH ME? JOIN THE WAITLIST FOR BLOOM  HERE

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