identity
ARCHITECTURE™ For Ambitious People

True love is possible when you know you're capable of anything. 

My clients are done talking about their patterns and ready to change them. From Harvard graduates to entrepreneurs and stay-at-home-mothers, the professioanals I work with are done playing small because they have big dreams to accomplish. Because your success and growth should feel powerful and predictable. 

WHAT I'm KNOWN FOR

Self-Leadership

This is where everything shifts. You don’t need to perform, prove, or be perfect because you deeply esteem yourself.  You know you’re worthy of love, investment, and devotion and that knowing shapes how you move.

Open-Heartedness™

What he sees (and feels) before you speak. When your heart is open, it broadcasts a silent signal: “I'm present. I like you. You're welcome here.” Emotionally available men feel it and are drawn to it.

Total Love Confidence™

Your choices are led by identity, not emotion. You don’t chase. You don’t confuse. You don’t stay past the moment it costs you your peace. You know who you are. You know where you’re going. And you know who gets access to that.

"Anabell is the real deal.

After working with her I was able to leave an established career in healthcare and pursue my true passion, interior design."

Open-Hearted™

The internal shift that aligns your identity with the kind of partner you want, so you attract the right men instead of repelling them. We don’t choose partners randomly. We choose based on what being with that person makes us feel and says about us. And emotionally available, marriage-minded men choose women the same way.
A man who sees himself as a strong, confident leader naturally wants a woman who reflects that back. A woman who is open, self-respecting, expressive, and secure. Not a woman who is guarded, trying to impress him, is anxious, or unsure of her worth.

When your self-image is shaped by old wounds or past relationship dynamics, you unintentionally attract men who match those patterns, and push away the emotionally available men you truly want.  Open-Hearted realigns who you believe you are with the mindset and actions needed to create the kind of relationship you desire. When your internal identity matches the partner you want, your patterns shift, the wrong men fall away, and the right men recognize you instantly. Your love life upgrades when your identity does.

“Anabell's coaching has propelled me towards the life I've always dreamed of.

Kind words from

Ashley, Harvard Graduate

“Where do I start, Anabell is the best. After working through my mindset beliefs I was able to identify positive belief systems to create a different perspective.

Kind words from

Astrid, Executive, Ph.d

“Working with Anabell has been an amazing life changing experience. It has been the greatest investment I have made in myself. 

Kind words from

Cristina, Banker

my expertise

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Identity-Based Connection™

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Internal Drive™

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Total Love Confidence™

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Future Filtering™

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Emotional Availability

My proprietary methods, frameworks and subconscious reprogramming tools are simple yet extremely effective and transformative.  
The plus? The longer you work with me, the better you become.

I'd love to work with you. In order to serve from a place of full focus, I accept a limited number of clients each year. Inquire for sessions and to reserve your appointment.

Identity Engineering™

Client Results