Restoring Women to Their Natural State of Love
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The Work I Do
The women I work with are powerful, successful, and deeply self-aware — yet when it comes to love, something still feels “off.”
They can attract attention easily but not emotional availability.
They can achieve anything, but can’t seem to relax into love.
It’s not because you’re career obsessed or don’t want a relationship.
It’s because their subconscious mind, the part of them that stores their memories, beliefs, habits and desires, learned long ago that love equals risk.
So it built subtle walls around the heart, confusing protection with power.
My work exists to dissolve those walls. Not by teaching women how to “act confident” or “think positive,” but by helping them return to their natural state of openness, love, and safety. Their most feminine self.
My Belief:
You were created from love.
Because we were created by God, who is Love itself, that divine essence already lives within us.
The pain, fear, or guardedness you feel in relationships isn’t proof that love is missing; it’s proof that the layers built to protect you have simply covered access to it.
The work I do is not about changing who you are. You're amazing.
It’s about restoring you to the truth of who you’ve always been, love in human form.
My Philosophy: The Mirror Effect
When you feel calm and safe within yourself, life mirrors that safety back.
When you carry unresolved fears, over-functioning patterns, or emotional guardedness, you attract experiences that confirm those beliefs.
You’re never being rejected, you’re simply being reflected.
This is why deep change doesn’t come from forcing new behavior.
It comes from updating the internal mirror, the subconscious identity that determines who you believe you are, what you deserve, and how safe love feels.
When you feel calm and safe within yourself, life mirrors that safety back.
When you carry unresolved fears, over-functioning patterns, or emotional guardedness, you attract experiences that confirm those beliefs.
You’re never being rejected, you’re simply being reflected.
This is why deep change doesn’t come from forcing new behavior.
It comes from updating the internal mirror, the subconscious identity that determines who you believe you are, what you deserve, and how safe love feels.
My Method:
Subconscious Reorganization
The mind can’t outthink emotional patterns, but the subconscious can be reorganized.
I help women update the “source code” of their identity through advanced subconscious and neuro-linguistic techniques that transform how they feel, not just how they think.
In this work, we:
Change subconscious associations that equate love with loss, or safety with self-protection
This is not mindset work.
It’s subconscious identity reorganization designed to bring your inner world into harmony with what you consciously desire.
Transform limiting qualities (control, perfectionism, fear of rejection) into evolved, helpful traits
Enhance and stabilize empowering qualities like confidence, playfulness, and trust
Remove the emotional charge from past relationships so you feel free, not haunted
Undo negative qualities that are ruining your relationships.
Working with Anabell
has been an amazing life changing experience.
It has been the greatest investment I have made in myself.
— cristina, private client
The Outcome? An Open Heart.
You no longer perform for love, you feel it. You no longer chase emotional safety, you are it.
The result is what I call open-heartedness:
A state of calm confidence, emotional stability, and self-trust that allows love to flow to you and through you effortlessly.
From this state:
- Your energy shifts from anxious to magnetic
- You attract emotionally available, grounded men
- You express yourself authentically without fear of rejection
- You experience relationships that feel mutual, peaceful, and real
You no longer perform for love, you feel it. You no longer chase emotional safety, you are it.
The result is what I call open-heartedness:
A state of calm confidence, emotional stability, and self-trust that allows love to flow to you and through you effortlessly.
From this state:
- Your energy shifts from anxious to magnetic
- You attract emotionally available, grounded men
- You express yourself authentically without fear of rejection
- You experience relationships that feel mutual, peaceful, and real
Why This Work Is Different
The Open Heart Blueprint™ goes to the root — where the subconscious identity organizes your emotions, beliefs, and behaviors into the results you experience.
Let’s break that down:
Therapy
Therapy helps you understand the story — where patterns come from, why you feel what you feel.
It builds awareness and reflection.
But therapy is also largely past-oriented.
Each week, you revisit and analyze the same painful experiences — the childhood wounds, heartbreaks, and disappointments that built your protective walls in the first place.
And because the subconscious doesn’t distinguish between what’s remembered and what’s real, this repeated focus reinforces the same emotional states and patterns you’re trying to release.
You end up reactivating the past instead of reorganizing it.
That’s why therapy often brings understanding but not transformation.
You can know why you feel unsafe in love and still feel unsafe.
You can understand your triggers and still repeat them.
My work begins where therapy ends — at the level of identity.
Instead of analyzing the story, we update the subconscious structure that keeps replaying it.
Mindset Work
It can create powerful temporary change, but it relies on conscious effort and repetition.
Once emotion takes over, the old programming returns.
Subconscious reorganization, by contrast, rewrites the automatic instructions that generate those thoughts and emotions in the first place.
You don’t have to force new behavior — you simply become the version of you who thinks, feels, and acts differently.
Dating Strategies
Dating advice focuses on what to say or do to appear confident or high-value.
But love isn’t a performance — it’s a reflection of who you’re being.
When your subconscious is still coded for control, anxiety, or fear of rejection, no script or tactic can override it.
The Open Heart Blueprint restores your natural feminine energy — ease, calm, authenticity — so you magnetize emotionally available love without trying to manage or manipulate the outcome.
Nervous System Regulation
Regulation tools help you calm your body in the moment, which is essential — but temporary.
They soothe the symptom, not the source.
If your subconscious still equates love with danger, your nervous system will continue to activate every time love gets close.
My work resolves this from the inside out.
By transforming subconscious beliefs and associations, your nervous system naturally recalibrates to safety.
You don’t have to keep managing activation — you live in peace as your default state.
Restoration. Not Repair
You were never broken.
You were created by God, who is Love — and that means you are love.
The walls you’ve built were never flaws; they were intelligent forms of protection created by a loving subconscious that wanted to keep you safe.Through this work, we honor those old structures — and gently retire them.
We don’t repair you.
We restore you to the truth of who you are.
When that restoration happens, your external world shifts effortlessly.
Your results, and especially your relationships, begin to reflect back to you exactly what’s within you:
Love. Support. Care. Authenticity. Peace.
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the solution:
All of this work comes together inside Segura, my private coaching program for women who are ready to feel safe in love again.
Inside Segura, we use my signature method — The Open Heart Blueprint™ — a restorative process that clears emotional blocks, reorganizes the subconscious, and reopens the heart so you can give and receive love fully.
It’s where powerful women return to peace, confidence, and emotional safety, the secure foundation love is created.
Love is not something you earn, chase, or find.
It’s something you naturally are.
And when you restore that state , everything in your life begins to mirror that truth back to you.
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