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Welcome to the Blooming Podcast! Today, we have a very special guest joining us, Dennis Vetrano, a highly experienced divorce attorney. He share expert advice on relationships, parenting and divorce on his social media with more than 210K followers.

In this interview, Dennis shares valuable insights on why we tend to ignore relationship issues and the importance of effective communication in nurturing healthy connections. We challenge the notion of finding a soulmate and explore the idea that multiple soulmates can exist, emphasizing the need for personal growth and self-love before seeking a lifelong partner.

Join us as we discuss the significance of being comfortable with solitude and the role it plays in building fulfilling relationships. Dennis also highlights the importance of patience when it comes to choosing the right life partner, and how taking the time to truly know someone can lead to long-lasting happiness.

FROM THIS EPISODE-

“Be comfortable loving you and loving your life before you can possibly think about loving anybody else. Being alone? Just them. It’s all about them. Just loving them. And then, then you’ll be happy. We’re gonna sound like repetitive, but that makes sense. But you have to be happy with being alone in order to be happy to be with somebody. Otherwise, what do you see happening? If they’re not happy alone, what are we doing? 


“And that’s the thing about communication, it’s not just about talking. It’s about actively listening, understanding, and seeking clarification. It’s about being present and engaged in the conversation, not just waiting for your turn to speak. Communication is a two-way street, and both partners need to be committed to open and honest dialogue for it to work effectively.”

“I think you need to be patient finding the person… spend a long enough time so you get a really good feel for what this person is like through the thick and the thin, the good times, the bad times, like see how they react to different circumstances.”


RESOURCES FOR YOU:

-Listen to The Divorce Stories Podcast, CLICK HERE 

-Julie Teffeteller- How To Save Your Marriage on The Divorce Stories Podcast, CLICK HERE

Connect Dennis Vetrano on 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drvlaw/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drvlaw?_t=8dkopfK3Pna&_r=1

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ABOUT BLOOMING PODCAST:

Hosted by Anabell Ingleton, a multiple 6-figure earning Coach, she shares new episodes every Wednesday on all things personal transformation, growth and evolving into and connecting to your Highest Self. Anabell shares concepts, tips and actual tools for you to use in your life today to help you remove the blocks that are keeping you fully blooming and creating the dream life you deserve. Anabell has solo episodes as well as other amazing coaches, entrepreneurs and her past clients themselves sharing what they do to fully bloom and change their lives. Anabell has served hundreds of clients in her 1:1 coaching practice where she helped men and women heal from the effects of stressful past experiences and used those thousands of hours of deep knowledge to create Bloom, a group coaching program where she helps women grow their confidence and self-love so they can go from “I can’t do that, I’m not “insert positive attribute here”….. to a confident, happy and secure woman who’s in charge of her schedule, decisions, relationships and future.





Welcome back to another episode of the Blooming Podcast!

Have you ever noticed how even if you put 100% effort into something, one tiny thing goes wrong, and your mood gets ruined so badly that you want to quit everything?

The same happened to me when I was working to upgrade Bloom to make it more better and faster for my clients. I just wanted to add a new module but my made mind generalization that Bloom is not worth, and next sec, I started overthinking even though all my clients got great results.

I know this happened with all of you, so in this episode of the Blooming podcast, I wanted to share with you “All or Nothing Thinking”, why did it happen and how can you overcome this part.

If you want to know what transformation I’d have if I joined Bloom and stalked my website, listen to this podcast, you will get all the deets. If you would like to join, click here for the waitlist.

Listen to the episode for all the details.



FROM THIS EPISODE-

“All or nothing thinking is great when you know what you want and you make a decision to get it, but you also need to be very, very specific about what you want and what you’re gonna do to change it so that your mind doesn’t go and overgeneralize and tries to  burn down the house because you’re gonna get a new house and you say the new house is better. “

“When if you believe that somebody doesn’t love you or doesn’t ever tell you they love you, doesn’t ever do things for you, doesn’t ever make you feel good, always says mean things to you. Your subconscious is gonna say is this friend or foe?  Is this friend or enemy? …..”

QUICK HIGHLIGHTS FROM THIS EPISODE:

  • The story behind this podcast episode
  • When your thoughts don’t support your desires
  • Your brain makes generalizations of what you believe
  • Overgeneralization can create negative thoughts & results
  • Your goal should be specific (know the psychology behind it)

Resources For You-

-Link to Profit First Book – HERE

-Link to my CPA firm Fit For Profit – Shannon

-Listen to the- Ep96: Taking Care Of The Business (The Self-Organization Model)  HERE

-Listen to my Client Experience- Ep98-  Bloom Client Story:  Desiree C. 

– Read How Online Bullying Almost Made Me Quit Coaching, HERE

-Want to work with me in the BLOOM coaching program? Click HERE to get on the waitlist or join now if we are enrolling!

-Want to read my private journal entry?! Thriving, the weekly journal entry I send out to my private subscribers every Thursday is where I share all my personal and professional moments that messed me up but made me thrive. Click here to subscribe and read my latest entry. 

-To connect with  me on Instagram, go here: @anabell.ingleton

Enjoy the show?

Don’t miss an episode. Follow on Spotify and subscribe via Apple Podcasts, Stitcher or RSS.

And if you love the episode,  Leave me a review in Apple Podcasts so  others can find it too. Your feedback helps other listeners find the show and encourages me to keep creating content.

Thank you!

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Welcome back to another episode of the Blooming Podcast!

In today’s episode , I’m excited to share with you an first time interview with a Bloom member to give you a glimpse inside the program. I am talking to Bloom’s Client Desiree about her experience inside Bloom.

Why has she joined Bloom?

How has it changed her life?

The way she feels inside bloom…

Desiree’s story started when she turned 30 and felt empty and wanted more than a 9 to 5 in her life. After working in Bloom, she has gained so much trust and confidence in herself to take a leap to move forward with her content creation journey. Now she is making more money and building the life she always wanted.

If you want to know what transformation I’d have if I joined Bloom and stalked my website, listen to this podcast, you will get all the deets. If you would like to join, click here for the waitlist.

Listen to the episode for all the details.

FROM THIS EPISODE-

“ I’m starting to see that there’s so many things that can be changed, but for me it was the main thing was my income. When I started Bloom, I was full-time insurance…..Because I understand that I can stand up for myself is now I’m just creating my life.  I am on the way to become a content creator, you know, and then, but I have a feeling that by the end of the program, I’ll be sorry to my own business.”

“ I live my life with bloom in mind. A hundred percent.  It’s like engraved in my,  brain. And I love that. I’m so happy that that’s happening because  before it was all the negative talk. Before it was all, , you can’t. Now it’s just kind of , how can you?”

QUICK HIGHLIGHTS FROM THIS EPISODE:

  • Get to know about the Desiree
  • The vicious cycle of inaction and how Bloom has solved this?
  • 9 to 5 insurance agent to fulfilling her passion for being a makeup content creator
  • Bloom isn’t just about digging into the past or blaming someone,
  • What support Desiree feels inside Bloom (that you can have too)

Resources For You-

-Want to work with me in the BLOOM coaching program? Click HERE to get on the waitlist or join now if we are enrolling!

-Want to read my private journal entry?! Thriving, the weekly journal entry I send out to my private subscribers every Thursday is where I share all my personal and professional moments that messed me up but made me thrive. Click here to subscribe and read my latest entry. 

-To connect with  me on Instagram, go here: @anabell.ingleton

Enjoy the show?

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And if you love the episode,  Leave me a review in Apple Podcasts so  others can find it too. Your feedback helps other listeners find the show and encourages me to keep creating content.

Thank you!

Have you ever wondered…”WHY is it that sometimes I feel like I’m split…or I’m torn? I wanna do one thing and another part of me wants to do something completely different? Why is that? And why is it hard for me to choose? Why can’t I make a decision? Why does it feel so difficult?”

If your answer is, Yeahh! That’s me, Welcome to the Blooming Podcast! In this episode, I’m giving you an inside look at your internal system.  I’m explaining exactly why that happen with you, how can find your cause and how to fix it. 

I also discussed how my client’s overspending habit loop kept her from starting a saving habit until we sat down, worked, and found ways to heal her broken internal links.

Tune in now to get the answers you need!

FROM THIS EPISODE-

“In bloom, what we do is we find out what are these, we call them maladaptive behaviors. it was a defensive behavior that you learned to do because Robert broke up with you. Now we’re just gonna be surface level with everybody. Now I go through life being surface, surface, surface forever. But now you’re realizing life feels so empty Anabell because I don’t have any deep connections with anybody cuz I’m so guarded, I’m so surface with everybody.”

“You wanna be the one always driving your car. And the only way that you can do that is if you calm these parts down, know all of them and know  How they live in this world because you just don’t wanna surviving. You wanna thrive….like living out your best life and living out your destiny…”

QUICK HIGHLIGHTS FROM THIS EPISODE:

  • Your body is made up of wonderful pieces of puzzle inside of you
  • What happens when your internal pieces break down and just keep floating inside you?
  • How are parts and limiting beliefs created?
  • Your limiting schema is causing you to live in fear
  • To heal, your broken internal pieces need completion 
  • My client’s Story- she stopped her overspending habit  by finding and fixing her internal pieces
  • Find out what is your maladaptive behavior



LISTEN TO THE EPISODE FOR ALL THE DETAILS



Resources For You-

-Ep. 78 – How I coach And Why?-Behind The Scene : CLICK HERE TO LISTEN 

How Parts and Limiting Beliefs Are Created? Download the pdf to understand. LINK HERE

-Watch the video podcast of this episode on the Youtube channel, GO HERE!

-Want to work with me in the  BLOOM coaching program?Click HERE to get on the waitlist or join now if we are enrolling!

-Want to read my private journal? Thriving is my weekly journal entry I send out to my private subscribers every Thursday where I share all my personal and professional moments that messed me up but made me thrive. CLICK HERE to subscribe and read my latest entry. 

-To follow me on Instagram, go here: @anabell.ingleton



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Thank you!



In this episode, I share the concept of Attachment Theory and what each of the 4 attachment styles are.

I go into full detail of each of the styles.

Listen to learn which of the four styles feels most applicable to you and how you interact in your relationships.

This audio was taken from an Instagram Live I filmed recently. It was so detailed that I thought I would share it here on the podcast.

also mentioned in the show:

  • How attachment styles are correlated to unhealed trauma.
  • How each attachment styles is created.
  • How each attachment style acts acts in relationships

what you will discover:

  • Which attachment style fits your personality now.

listen to the full episode here:

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Hi, I’m Anabell, Trauma-Informed Coach

I’m Sex And the City obsessed, Audible addicted (I love a great audiobook) and will talk your ear off about all things subconscious mind.  

With over 20 years worth of self-development books read under my belt, I should’ve known I was destined to be a Coach. But it wasn’t that straight of a road for your girl. 

The amount of times I quote rap music lyrics daily, you’d think I would be a creative, not a Coach. But I bring my creativity, ventral energy and Pisces vibe to my practice. We’re healing...it doesn’t need to be painful! 

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In this episode, I share the concept of Attachment Theory and what each of the 4 attachment styles are.

I go into full detail of each of the styles.

Listen to learn which of the four styles feels most applicable to you and how you interact in your relationships.

This audio was taken from an Instagram Live I filmed recently. It was so detailed that I thought I would share it here on the podcast.

also mentioned in the show:

  • How attachment styles are correlated to unhealed trauma.
  • How each attachment styles is created.
  • How each attachment style acts acts in relationships

what you will discover:

  • Which attachment style fits your personality now.

listen to the full episode here:

enjoy the show?

Don’t miss an episode. Follow on Spotify and subscribe via Apple PodcastsStitcher or RSS.

Leave me a review in Apple Podcasts

Ready to heal? Book your free Clarity Call by clicking HERE. I’m ready when you are!✨

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