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Anabell Ingleton

What's The Mirror Effect?

You’re Not Being Ghosted. You’re Being Mirrored.

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Hi, I’m Anabell, and I’m obsessed with all things subconscious mind, love, connection & behavior change.

I help women break free from subconscious patterns that hold you back in every area of your life and unlock your true potential.

How Your Inner World Shapes Your Outer Results — and How to Reprogram It for Love, Confidence, and Peace

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The Mirror Effect

Love doesn’t punish you. It reveals you.

Most women think being ghosted means something is wrong with them.
But your love life isn’t judging you. It’s reflecting you.

Every man who pulls away, every inconsistent connection, every moment that leaves you confused is feedback from your mirror.

When someone doesn’t show up for you, it mirrors the part of you that stops showing up for yourself when you don’t get the validation you want. You hand someone else the job of proving your worth, and the mirror simply shows you what happens when they don’t.

That pain you feel is not punishment.
It is your subconscious asking you to come home, to give yourself the love you keep trying to earn.

The moment you stop abandoning yourself, your reflection changes.
You start attracting people who stay, choose, and show up, because your energy finally does too.

Your love life is not random. It is your mirror, showing you where you are still outsourcing your power, your peace, or your approval.

The Updated Mirror Effect Guide

This week, I released the new and updated edition of The Mirror Effect Guide.
It now explains exactly what your love life is trying to show you and how to change what it reflects.

Inside, you’ll learn:

  • What your dating patterns reveal about your subconscious beliefs
  • Why ghosting, inconsistency, and unavailability are reflections of self-abandonment
  • The emotional qualities you need to build for secure, calm, confident love
  • Why letting go of your ex, or the version of you who needed him, is often the key to attracting a secure, emotionally available man
  • How The Love Mirror Reset turns awareness into permanent transformation through subconscious reprogramming

Awareness helps you see the mirror.
Integration resets it.

Download the new and updated Mirror Effect Guide today.
It’s free, and it will change the way you see yourself and every relationship in your life.

Download The Mirror Effect Guide

NEXT STEPS & RESOURCES

What if men aren’t rejecting you — they’re just reflecting you?
Learn how your self-perception quietly teaches men how to treat you with The Mirror Effect Guide. Learn how your inner energy creates  love, support, and devotion from men. Download the free guide HERE. 

Your self-image sets the limit on what you attract and create. And when you change the image within, everything reflects differently. Download The Self-Image Reset Guide and discover how your past experiences quietly built your identity and how to transform those patterns so love, success, and confidence become your automatic new normal. Download The Self-Image Reset Guide for free.

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Hi, I’m Anabell, and I’m obsessed with all things love, connection, Jesus and behavior change.

I help women remove mental blocks and limiting beliefs so you can stop procrastinating and finally be the confident feminine woman you truly desire to be.

How Your Inner World & Shapes Your Outer Results and How To Reprogram It for Love, Confidence and Peace 

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You’re Not Being Ghosted. You’re Being Mirrored.

Love doesn’t punish you. It reveals you. Most women think being ghosted means something is wrong with them.But your love life isn’t judging you. It’s reflecting you. Every man who pulls away, every inconsistent connection, every moment that leaves you confused is feedback from your mirror. When someone doesn’t show up for you, it mirrors […]

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The Mirror Effect

“This guide made me see my entire life differently. It connected dots I didn’t even know were related. It’s like I finally met the part of me that’s been running the show. — Janet

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