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You’re Great at What You Do. So Why Are You Still Here Financially?

Hi, I’m Anabell, and I’m obsessed with all things subconscious mind, wealthy, identity & behavior change.

I help successful leaders break free from subconscious patterns that hold them back in every area of your life and unlock your true potential.

How Your Inner World Shapes Your Outer Results  and How to Reprogram It for Wealth Confidence, and Peace

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The Mirror Effect

If you’re great at what you do, but your bank account doesn’t reflect it, read this.

There are two main “income ceiling” patterns I see in high-skill entrepreneurs:

  • The ones who know exactly what to do, but don’t show up consistently.
  • The ones who show up every day, but won’t charge what their work is worth.

Meet Sarah and Raul.

Sarah: Knows what to do, doesn’t do it consistently

Sarah is incredible at what she does. She gets her clients real results. She knows how to sign clients, how to market, how to sell.

Her problem? She doesn’t do it every day.

She pushes hard, signs a few clients, gets paid… and then lets off the gas.
A few weeks later, she’s in a famine cycle again, scrambling for cash and wondering what’s wrong with her.

She tells herself, “I just need to be more disciplined. I need a better planner. I need more accountability.”

But here’s the truth: Sarah doesn’t have a strategy problem.
She has an identity problem.

Her subconscious has an old setting that says:

  • “Making enough to get by is familiar and safe.”
  • “It’s okay to hustle, but not okay to thrive.”

So the moment she creeps above that internal income setting, her behavior automatically slows down. Not because she’s lazy, but because her identity is calibrated to “enough to get by,” not “overflow.”

That’s an income ceiling showing up as inconsistency.

Raul: Works every day, but won’t charge more

Raul is the opposite.

He works every day. He is objectively one of the best in his game. He has a great coach. He has a solid strategy. He knows he should be working with 10k+ clients.

But he has a hard time letting go of the $3,000 “low-hanging fruit” clients who drain him.

He tells himself, “Once I work hard enough, long enough, the 10k clients will come.”

In reality, his subconscious is running this script:

  • “I’m the guy who charges 3k.”
  • “It’s dangerous to say no to money in front of me.”
  • “High-level clients are for people who are a little further ahead than me.”

So he keeps filling his calendar with low-paying, high-drama work.
Not because he doesn’t know better, but because his identity is calibrated to “hard-working 3k guy,” not “leader who only takes 10k clients.”

That’s an income ceiling showing up as undercharging and overworking.

Same root issue, two different costumes

On the surface, Sarah and Raul look completely different.

  • Sarah “lacks consistency.”
  • Raul “needs to charge more.”

But under the hood, it’s the same thing:

Their subconscious is still loyal to an old identity and an old way of making money.

  • Sarah’s identity is loyal to “I make enough to get by if I push when I need to.”
  • Raul’s identity is loyal to “I work hard and take what I can get; saying no to smaller money isn’t safe.”

Their strategies are fine. Their skills are solid.
Their income ceiling is simply manifesting through their daily actions.

What actually needs to change

Most people try to solve these problems from the outside:

  • Sarah buys more planners, programs, and productivity hacks.
  • Raul takes another sales training, adds a new funnel, and keeps telling himself he’s “being strategic” by keeping the 3k clients.

And their identity quietly says, “No we’re not. We’re staying right here.”

Here’s the shift:

  • Sarah doesn’t just need a better content plan. She needs an identity that sees consistent visibility and cash flow as normal and safe for her.
  • Raul doesn’t just need a better sales script. He needs an identity that sees 10k clients as “of course” and anything less as misaligned.

Once their subconscious “gets the memo” that:

“I am the person who works consistently and gets paid at the level of my skill,”

their behavior changes automatically.

  • Sarah stops disappearing after a good month because “good months” stop feeling like a fluke and start feeling like baseline.
  • Raul stops saying yes to 3k energy leaks because his system won’t tolerate being underpaid anymore.

This is the work I do

I work with highly skilled entrepreneurs who:

  • Know they’re among the best in their industry.
  • Know exactly how to get their clients results.
  • Have the strategy and the skill…
  • But are still capped by inconsistency, undercharging, or feast-and-famine cycles.

We don’t pile on more strategies.
We update the subconscious identity that’s running the strategy.

We work at the subconscious level to:

  • Raise your internal value settings.
  • Update the “old way” of making money your nervous system is loyal to.
  • Align your identity with the income you say you want.

When that happens, raising your prices and showing up consistently stop feeling like a fight. They feel like the only thing that makes sense.

If you read this and saw yourself in Sarah or Raul, your strategy probably isn’t the problem. Your subconscious just hasn’t gotten the memo yet.

Hi, I’m Anabell, and I’m obsessed with all things love, connection, Jesus and behavior change.

I help women remove mental blocks and limiting beliefs so you can stop procrastinating and finally be the confident feminine woman you truly desire to be.

How Your Inner World & Shapes Your Outer Results and How To Reprogram It for Love, Confidence and Peace 

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