There are three internal pillars that determine everything you create, keep, or lose in your life:
identity, capability, and deservability.
Most women try to manifest a result by focusing on actions or mindset.
But results don’t come from effort.
They come from who you believe you are.
Identity
This is the version of you your subconscious believes you are.
Not the version you present, the one you “try” to be, or the one you hope to grow into.
It is the woman your inner world thinks is real.
You will never consistently outperform this identity.
You rise or fall to match it every time.
Capability
This is your subconscious belief about what you can handle, create, and sustain.
Women constantly underestimate themselves, saying they want more, but internally believing
“I don’t know how,”
“I’ve never done this before,”
or “what if I can’t keep it?”
If capability is low, you sabotage opportunities that require a higher self-image.
Deservability
This is the quiet force that determines what you allow yourself to receive.
You only let in what you believe matches your worth.
If you desire love, success, or abundance but you subconsciously believe you have to earn it, prove it, or be perfect for it,
you will push it away every time.
Not because you don’t want it, but because you don’t feel aligned with receiving it.
Here’s what you don’t wanna miss:
You do not get what you want.
You get what your identity says you are, what your capability says you can handle, and what your deservability says you are allowed to have.
If even one of those is misaligned, you will work twice as hard for half the results.
This is where identity work becomes non negotiable.
When we update your subconscious identity, elevate your sense of capability, and expand your deservability, your external reality has no choice but to follow.
It becomes natural. Automatic. Inevitable.
If you are ready to stop trying to think your way into a new chapter and actually become the woman who creates it, my identity work is where we begin.
Click here to learn about Identity Engineering.
This is the future of therapy/healing/coaching/transformation. I’m mastering this skillset and eventually will be training people who want to certified in this work. The ability to facilitate these changes for others is so fulfilling and financially profitable. Want to learn more about this work? Click here.
