I used to think if I just tried hard enough, I could change my life.
If I pushed myself harder, hustled longer, forced the discipline… eventually, things would click.
But here’s what always happened: it worked for a little while… then it all fell apart.
I’d burn out.
I’d sabotage.
I’d feel like nothing I did was ever enough.
Sound familiar?
That’s because you can’t out-behave your belief.
Why Willpower Alone Doesn’t Work
Willpower can carry you for a few weeks, maybe a few months if you’re stubborn. But sooner or later, your subconscious wins.
Not because you want to sabotage yourself… but because your subconscious programming is stronger than your conscious effort.
This is why so many people struggle with consistency, self-sabotage, or that feeling of “two steps forward, three steps back.”
The truth? You don’t need more willpower. You need subconscious alignment.
The IDA Framework
The three things I focus on programming into the subconscious are:
✨ Identity — Who you believe you are.
✨ Deservability — Whether you believe you’re worthy of having it.
✨ Ability — Whether you believe you can do it, in your own preferred way.
I call this the IDA Subconscious Success Framework:
- I am
- I am worthy
- I can do it this way
And let me tell you — it’s never failed me.
My Story
Why am I so passionate about this? Because I wasn’t born confident, calm, or successful.
I had a rough start. Doubt, insecurity, and fear were my normal.
I didn’t trust people.
I didn’t feel safe in the world.
And I definitely didn’t feel worthy or capable of achieving big goals.
That meant I lived in low-frequency emotions: anxiety, nervousness, fear. And those states kept everything I actually wanted—love, freedom, wealth, peace—just out of reach.
What Most People Get Wrong About Manifesting
Here’s what most people don’t realize:
It’s not about “like attracts like.” That’s a misconception.
You’re not trying to “manifest” something into your life. You’re already manifesting all the time.
Wealth, health, freedom, peace, joy, love—they’re all available to you right now. They’re your birthright.
So if they don’t feel easy to have, it’s not because you don’t deserve them. It’s because your current emotional state is pushing them away.
Think of it this way: you were born tuned into the frequency of joy and abundance. That’s your natural setting. But when old beliefs and unprocessed memories create anxiety, shame, or fear, they act like static on the line. They block the signal.
Belief First. Results Next.
Most people think if they change their circumstances, then they’ll feel better.
“If I make more money, then I’ll feel secure.”
“If I lose the weight, then I’ll feel confident.”
“If I meet the guy, then I’ll feel worthy.”
But it’s the other way around.
Belief first. Have it next.
Change your emotional state and your circumstances have no choice but to follow.
That’s what subconscious work does. It clears the beliefs and processes the old memories that keep your nervous system stuck in low-frequency emotions. When you release them, you don’t just feel lighter—you open the gates to everything you’ve been waiting for.
What Happened When I Did This
I stopped sabotaging.
I lost 25 pounds in four months—without dieting myself miserable.
I ended a relationship that needed to end.
I started a thriving business that’s given me freedom and purpose.
And the best part? It didn’t feel like force or struggle. It felt natural, like doors opening that were always meant for me.
Want This Too?
If you’re done trying to out-behave your beliefs…
If you’re tired of relying on willpower that never lasts…
If you’re ready to finally feel aligned, worthy, and capable…
Want to learn more about the subconscious protocol I use? Click here to download The Subconscious Success Guide where I teach you the most important to beliefs that need reprogramming for full transformation.
👉 Click here to learn how to work with me.
You deserve it.
