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You Don’t Feel Safe Unless You’re in Control—And That’s Blocking Him From Seeing You As A Potential Companion

Hi, I’m Anabell, and I’m obsessed with all things love, connection, Jesus & behavior change.

I help women break free from subconscious patterns that hold you back in romantic relationships, unlock your true feminine potential and attract your masculine man 

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You don’t feel safe unless you’re in control.

And I get it.

Control makes you feel powerful. Protected. Put together.  

But here’s the truth: 

Control is a survival mechanism.  

It’s not a love strategy.  

And worst of all—it blocks you from receiving what you say you want: a deeply connected, masculine man.

You’re craving a love story. But what you’re running is a protective strategy.  

And love doesn’t respond to control.  

Love responds to connection.

Let’s get honest about something:

Men aren’t walking around thinking,  

“I wish a woman would connect to my heart.”  

Or,  

“I want to access and express my feelings with a woman.”

But ironically—that’s exactly what activates his desire to protect, pursue, and provide.

Why?  

Because when you’re emotionally available, soft, and present—you awaken his masculine nature.  

You invite him to show up.  

You give him room to lead.  

You hand over the invisible armor you’ve been carrying… and he feels the invitation to step into his.

Here’s the problem:  

Most women who struggle with emotional availability don’t look emotionally unavailable.  

You’re successful. You’re loving. You’re fun.  

But deep down, you’re guarded.

You’re dating men who don’t pursue, don’t lead, don’t follow through and don’t feel capable of loving you the way you need to be loved. 

Or you’re chasing emotionally unavailable men—because it feels safer  because they don’t require you to open your heart, be vulnerable, be authentic. These EU men don’t know how to fully see you and fully love you. So again, you’re safe. 

You don’t need another dating tip.  

You need to transform the part of you that believes love will cost you your freedom, your identity, or your safety.

Because when you transform that?  

You start to embody emotional openness in a way that draws a man in effortlessly.

You don’t try to attract a masculine man.  

You simply become the kind of woman he wants to give everything to.

And that is where real love begins.

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Want to learn more about The Open-Heart Blueprint, the system I used to become emotional available again and go from guarded to open-hearted even after divorce and heartbreak?  Click here to watch a video that shares the 6 steps and shares all the details. 

Ready now? Want to learn The Open-Heart Blueprint? Click here to learn how to work with me Break free and transform the beliefs and behavior patterns that hold you back in relationships & learn exactly how you need to show up in to attract a loving emotionally available man that wants you EXACTLY as you are and is ready for marriage.

Join the new membership community, Marriage Material, HERE. This is the membership community of high achieving women who love & respect men and are committed to creating their dream relationship. 

Want to reprogram your subconscious with absolutely no effort? The ReProgram is for you. Ready to rewire your subconscious mind to fully trust yourself, trust men, and trust love again? This powerful 3-part audio series, The ReProgram, is designed to dissolve fear-based beliefs, transform the effects of past wounds, and embed deep, unshakable confidence in your ability to attract and experience secure, fulfilling relationships, and abundance. Each 8-hour audio works while you sleep, relax, or go about your day, gently shifting your subconscious patterns so trust becomes second nature. Click here to download now and transform today. 

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Hi, I’m Anabell, and I’m obsessed with all things love, connection, Jesus and behavior change.

I help women remove mental blocks and limiting beliefs so you can stop procrastinating and finally be the confident feminine woman you truly desire to be.

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