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You don’t need to change yourself. You need to change your type.

Hi, I’m Anabell, and I’m obsessed with all things love, connection, Jesus & behavior change.

I help women break free from subconscious patterns that hold you back in romantic relationships, unlock your true feminine potential and attract your masculine man 

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You don’t need to change yourself. You need to change your type.

Read that again.

The issue isn’t that you’re not enough, too much, or need to “fix” something about yourself to be loved. The issue is who you’re choosing — and more importantly, *who you’re allowing to stay.*

You keep trying to be the female version of him, contort, be “cool with it,” wait it out, or make it work with men who were never built to hold the kind of love you desire.

You’re exhausted not because love is hard — but because you’ve been choosing wrong.

Here’s the truth: simply changing the kind of man you allow into your life can *radically* shift your entire experience of men, love and relationships. Not to mention yourself. 

✨ No more “I feel bad cuz he’s really nice.”  

✨ No more “Well at least he’s hot.”  

✨ No more second-guessing yourself, your worth, or your standards.

The real transformation starts when you stop settling and start upgrading. 

That means no longer lowering your standards just because you’re lonely. 

That means no longer justifying red flags because “he has potential.”

The first step out of this cycle is by raising your standards, getting crazy clear on your non-negotiables and 10x-ing your relationship goals. 

Not the Pinterest-perfect version — but the soul-aligned vision of partnership you *actually* crave deep down and would be crazy excited to have. 

Here’s why it’s so important.   

Most dating coaches won’t teach you this, because most of them don’t even understand what real standards are. They’ll hand you a checklist or tell you to be more feminine, but they won’t help you anchor into the kind of clarity that makes choosing easy — and settling impossible.

And because my coaching methods are ALWAYS backed by neuroscience and behavior change psychology, my methods work FAST.

That’s why you’re still entertaining the wrong men. 

That’s why your heart keeps breaking in the same ways. 

And that’s why you feel like time is slipping through your fingers.

It’s not because love isn’t meant for you —It’s because your standards haven’t caught up with the woman you’ve become. It’s because your standards haven’t been defined in a way that protects your peace and creates the future relationship you really want.

As always, I’ll back it up with some neuroscience.

When you get crystal clear on what you truly want in a relationship, you’re activating your Reticular Activating System (RAS). This brain function helps you focus on your goals and filter out distractions—like emotionally unavailable partners. This isn’t just a list of preferences; it’s a powerful shift in mindset that leads to real results.

If you’re ready to stop wasting time  and start attracting the kind of love you actually deserve,

it’s time to change your type —

and that starts with upgrading it ALL.

If you’ve been looking for permission. Permission granted. Let’s get to work.

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Want to learn more about The Open-Heart Blueprint, the system I used to build Total Love Confidence and go from guarded to open-hearted even after divorce and heartbreak?  Click here to watch a video that shares the 6 steps and shares all the details. 

Ready now? Want to learn The Open-Heart Blueprint? Click here to learn how to work with me Break free and transform the behavior patterns that hold you back in relationships & create the secure foundation needed to attract a loving masculine man ready for marriage.

Join the new membership community, Marriage Material, HERE. This is the membership community of high achieving women who love & respect men and are committed to creating their dream relationship. 

Want to reprogram your subconscious with absolutely no effort? The ReProgram is for you. Ready to rewire your subconscious mind to fully trust yourself, trust men, and trust love again? This powerful 3-part audio series, The ReProgram, is designed to dissolve fear-based beliefs, transform the effects of past wounds, and embed deep, unshakable confidence in your ability to attract and experience secure, fulfilling relationships, and abundance. Each 8-hour audio works while you sleep, relax, or go about your day, gently shifting your subconscious patterns so trust becomes second nature. Click here to download now and transform today. 

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Hi, I’m Anabell, and I’m obsessed with all things love, connection, Jesus and behavior change.

I help women remove mental blocks and limiting beliefs so you can stop procrastinating and finally be the confident feminine woman you truly desire to be.

If men and relationships feel confusing or frustrating, you want my weekly email newsletter in your inbox. I share the deep neuroscience research about men, love creation and what works in lasting relationships. 

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