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How Men Decide They’re Ready For A Relationship

Hi, I’m Anabell, and I’m obsessed with all things love, connection, Jesus & behavior change.

I help women break free from subconscious patterns that hold you back in romantic relationships, unlock your true feminine potential and attract your masculine man 

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Women think: “I’m ready for a relationship. I just need to meet the right man.”
Men think: “When I meet the right woman, then I’ll be ready for a relationship.”

Do you feel the difference?

It’s not just semantics.
It’s a completely different decision-making process.

Men and women “buy” love differently.
(Buying = choosing, investing, committing.)

Women commit when they feel ready.
Men commit when they see clearly that their life is better with her than without her.

This is one of the most important mindset shifts I teach inside The Open-Heart Blueprint—and it might just be my favorite module. Because once you get this… everything changes.

Most women assume that men are walking around actively looking for a girlfriend or a wife.
Just like you might be hoping to meet your husband.

But that’s not how most men operate.
They don’t decide “I want to be in a relationship” and then go look.
They meet a woman who shifts something inside of them.
She makes life better.
She brings out the man he loves being.

And then he decides he’s ready.

The mistake?
Trying to use a woman’s buying strategy on a man.
It doesn’t work.

Men buy when they feel like a better version of themselves around you.

Not because you’re:

  • The prettiest woman he’s seen
  • The most successful
  • The fittest or youngest
  • Or checking all the boxes on paper

But because you make him feel:

  • Strong
  • Capable
  • Admired
  • Needed
  • Respected
  • Like a leader
  • Like a protector and provider
  • Like a man with purpose

That’s what makes a man commit.

So the question isn’t: “How can I get a man to choose me?”
It’s: “How do I show up in a way that speaks to the man I want—his identity, his heart, his purpose?”

That’s the difference between hoping love finds you…
And knowing how to create the kind of love that lasts.

This belief shift is just one part of The Open-Heart Blueprint… and it’s a game-changer.

NEXT STEPS

Want to learn more about The Open-Heart Blueprint, the system I used to build Total Love Confidence and go from guarded to open-hearted even after divorce and heartbreak?  Click here to watch a video that shares the 6 steps and shares all the details. 

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Hi, I’m Anabell, and I’m obsessed with all things love, connection, Jesus and behavior change.

I help women remove mental blocks and limiting beliefs so you can stop procrastinating and finally be the confident feminine woman you truly desire to be.

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