Do you think men love women who are difficult or mean? Based on all the dating advice you see online, does it seem like men are more attracted to women that are…the b word? Let me clear this up once and for all.
Men don’t love “bitches”—they’re drawn to women with self-respect, who have standards and express them clearly. The confusion lies in the fact that many of you have been told to be nice, don’t hurt anyone’s feelings, or don’t be mean. So when a woman shows she respects herself, says “no” when necessary, and prioritizes her own well-being, the world wants to call her a b word.
Let’s be honest, society has deemed a woman saying what she wants, going after it and doing what it takes to get it, as “being a B” (um Martha Stewart documentary anyone?) I love her by the way.
That’s not bitchy. To men, it actually communicates authenticity, strength and honesty — and THATS what he thinks is hot.
Drop the idea that you have to be mean to be respected. You attract the right man by being kind, clear, and confident.
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