Men bond to women when they give while women bond when they receive.
In a romantic relationship, a man gives (or uses) his resources: time, energy & money.
Why?
Men need respect. This is the male equivalent of a female needing love.
Men feel respected when they overcome challenges, feel successful, needed, appreciated, acknowledged, encouraged and accepted to be themselves.
They feel successful when they provide, protect, lead, accomplish things, solve problems, overcome obstacles & get results.
They provide and protect when they have the opportunity to give.
They give to those who need and want to receive.
And if you’ve been following me here, you know that one of the most important roles a woman takes in a relationship with a man is the feminine energy of receiver and follower.
Relaxing and allowing him to lead or give to you means he will begin associating the feeling of success with YOU.
We spend time with people who make us feel good and men LOVE to feel successful.
So if you want to him to come around more and commit to you, do any of the 10 things below (or all of them!) whenever you want to give your man a “win”.
1. Ask him to open something like a jar or box.
2. Ask him to fix something in your house like tighten screws in cabinets or change a light bulb that’s too high for you to reach.
3. Ask him to solve a puzzle with you.
4. Ask him to please hold your coat while you tie your shoe.
5. When you’re at his place, ask for a glass of water or snack.
6. Ask him for the best directions some place.
7. Ask for his advice with a small problem you have.
8. To explain a sport or movie.
9. To share his plans to reach a work goal.
10. Explain how something works.
And most importantly…after he gets that win, give him plenty of praise and appreciation and tell him how you FEEL. Things like “Wow, babe you’re so strong.” or “I love how I can always count on you to help me with things like this. I feel so safe with you.” or “My hero!”
Make sure it’s genuine.
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