Are You Bringing Masculine Or Feminine Energy To Your Relationship?

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Are you bringing masculine or feminine energy to your relationship?

Read on to learn exactly what happens with each. 

When you bring unhealthy masculine energy to a romantic relationship, it creates:

  • Stress
  • Separation
  • Surface level connection
  • Does not inspire him to want more

When you engage with feminine energy in a romantic relationship, it creates:

  • Love
  • Closeness
  • Deep connection 
  • Inspires a desire for commitment in a man

Here’s why….

Although you deeply desire love from a man, masculine energy creates stress instead. You’re eager to impress him but you subconsciously come off as needy, insecure and fearful.  

This happens because you tend to overfunction, in this case you over-give. This creates a stress response in him because a man needs and actually wants to “work” for a valuable thing. Especially a woman. 

When a woman gives her body, money or trust way too soon, it creates the possum effect in him and makes him think that something is “wrong” with her. 

When you overshare and lead with your accomplishments, career status or income, you lead with too much masculine “provider” energy which is traditionally the duty and proud role of a man. 

This makes him feel like he isn’t needed or respected which causes him to view you more as a competitor than a companion. This creates separation between the both of you instead of bringing you closer. 

Because you’re subconsciously self-protecting due to fear of getting hurt, masculine energy makes you unwilling to get vulnerable, share your feelings or true desires. 

You stay in your head aka stay surface level because you’re worried that expressing yourself will make you look weak and thus vulnerable to heartbreak.

This causes him to stay in his head too. Not knowing that if you engaged your emotions, it would allow him to relax, drop into his heart and open him up to falling in love and going deeper with you.  

Conversely, when you’re engaging with a man and you’re in your feminine energy, you’re comfortable, willing and more than able to be more in your body, let go and let him lead. This allows him to step into his masculine and want to provide for you. 

This makes him feel capable and needed by you which makes him see you as a companion or potential partner. This makes him feel like he can accomplish more with you than without you and it causes him to bond to you and thus want to commit to you. 

Communicating with a man in your vulnerable and expressive feminine energy creates the perfect compliment to his masculine protector. Both inspire the natural God-given design in the other. You’re allowed to receive and follow and he eagerly wants to provide and lead. 

Feminine communication inspires a man to love, get closer, create a deep connection and commit to you. 

Feminine communication is about what you say, what you do and how you feel to him. 

Consciously and subconsciously!

It’s essential you’re engaging with him in your feminine energy to ensure you attract him, create love and keep him. 

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I help women remove mental blocks and limiting beliefs so you can stop procrastinating and finally be the confident feminine woman you truly desire to be.

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