4 Things A Feminine Woman Does Not Do
- Does not control others.
- Does not force outcomes.
- Takes no for an answer.
- Does not criticize, blame, accuse, judge, over-generalize, control, teach, convince or fix others.
She does not control others
She does not control others because she understands that if she controls another person, they are no longer doing what they want but what she wants. A feminine woman always wants the truth and deals with reality. She wants to know who a person is, how they think, feel and behave. She understands that in order to truly connect with a person, she must learn who someone really is and she won’t get that by manipulating their behavior.
Does not force outcomes
Does not force outcomes but she trusts God implicitly. She knows He is good, just and His timing is perfect. A feminine woman understands that although things take time, are uncomfortable and the results don’t look the way she hoped, nothing has gone wrong. She knows God is a God of order and purpose. She does not skip steps or takes shortcuts. She knows that He will only give her what she can handle and gains character and integrity whatever the outcome.
Does take no for an answer
Does take no for an answer. She believes that a no is direction, not rejection. She doesn’t take a no personal because she knows that someone’s “no” means her “yes” is somewhere else. She also knows that oftentimes a no today could mean yes next month. She is patient, respects others’ needs and won’t force an outcome.
Because she knows her value, someone’s no never defines her worth or diminishes it. She honors peoples’ differences and allows others to not agree with her.
Does not criticize, blame, accuse, judge, over-generalize, control, teach, convince or fix others
Does not criticize, blame, accuse, judge, over-generalize, control, teach, convince or fix others because she knows that when she hurts others, she is hurting God’s work. When she expresses herself, she is sharing her own feelings, desires, likes and dislikes. She focuses on creating love, not stress. She desires to be of value everywhere she is and changing people, when that isn’t what people ever need, is not only not helpful, but hurtful. She leaves change to the Holy Spirit.
A feminine woman always takes complete responsibility for her words, thoughts, energy and behaviors. She can handle disappointment, differences and discovering that things don’t go her way. She will not impose her will on others. She allows others to show up exactly as they are but will make decisions based on the truth. She is in charge of her life not in control of others’. She shares her feelings, doesn’t make others change theirs. She’s a woman, not a girl.
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