The Love Mirror Reset
Transform your inner image so love, devotion, and commitment become your external reflection.
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What if the only thing standing between you and the love you want… is the way you see yourself?
You’ve done the mindset work. You’ve read the books, listened to the podcasts, maybe even taken the courses.
But when it comes to love — real, emotionally available, secure love — something still feels off.
You meet great men, but the moment you start to care, your body tenses, your words stumble, and you find yourself performing again.
You don’t want to chase. You don’t want to overgive.
But something in you still fears being left, misunderstood, or not chosen.
That’s not “just how you are.”
That’s your self-image — the internal mirror your subconscious is using to create your reality.
Your reflection doesn’t lie.
Life and love will always mirror back who you believe yourself to be.
If deep down, love feels unsafe or uncertain, your reflection will show you that through emotionally unavailable men.If you believe you’re hard to love, you’ll find yourself proving your worth.If you see yourself as too much or not enough, you’ll attract partners who confirm both.
You don’t need to fix the reflection.You need to reset the mirror
Imagine if instead....
✨ You felt calm, confident, and magnetic around the person you like.
✨ You no longer needed to prove, chase, or perform to be chosen.
✨ Men treated you with respect, pursuit, and commitment—without you asking.
✨ You felt so certain in your worth that rejection didn’t shake you.
This is what I call Total Love Confidence™.
And it’s not just possible—it’s the natural result of resetting your inner subconscious mirror.
YOU’RE in the RIGHT PLACE
IF You'RE LOOKING to:
Understand why your love life keeps repeating the same patterns.
Only choose partners who reflect love and devotion.
Release the emotional weight of past experiences.
Transform your self-image for love, trust, and authenticity.
— You’re in the right place.
Feel calm and confident in your worth, no matter the circumstances.
Let go of control, proving, and people-pleasing.
Permanently release the need for external validation or approval.
Working with Anabell
has been an amazing life changing experience.
It has been the greatest investment I have made in myself.
— M, private client
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Locate the experiences that shaped your self-image.
The moments that taught you love, safety, or success had to be earned.
together we'll:
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Release the emotional charge...
Release the emotional charge and rewrite the meanings your mind created about yourself, men, and the world.
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Remove negative or outdated qualities
Remove negative or outdated qualities that keep you in survival mode.
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Strengthen ambiguous qualities
Strengthen the ambiguous ones that need to show up consistently (like confidence, calm, and trust).
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Install new empowering qualities
that become the foundation of your Love-Based Self-Image.
“I had no idea love could feel this easy. I finally get it.”
— vanessa, privatte client
Frequently asked questions
What if I never find the right man?
When your identity shifts, that belief dissolves.
You move from hoping love happens to expecting it because you have become the woman love chooses easily.
Your job is not to chase love.
It is to become aligned with it.
And once aligned, love has nowhere else to go — it finds you.
How is this different from therapy or mindset coaching?
Therapy helps you understand why you feel the way you do. Mindset coaching teaches you what to think instead.
This work goes deeper. We rewire how your subconscious actually responds, so new thoughts, emotions, and behaviors happen naturally. You won’t have to force change; it becomes who you are.
Who is this work for?
- Emotional overthinking in dating
- Attraction to avoidant partners
- Pushing away emotionally available men
- Cycles of connection then fear
- Self-sufficiency masking vulnerability
- A guarded heart despite wanting love
- You don’t need “help.”
- You need refinement, calibration, and identity expansion.
What kind of results can I expect?
Most women feel shifts in the first session and see external results within weeks.
Why?
Because when the identity changes, behavior changes effortlessly.
There is no “trying.”
It becomes who you are.
What exactly is The Love Mirror Reset and The Open-Heart Blueprint?
This is identity-level, subconscious-level transformation designed to create total love confidence. We are not working on dating skills, profile strategies, attachment styles or emotional regulation. We are upgrading the internal operating system that determines who you attract, how you show up emotionally, what you tolerate, and what you call in. You show up as the woman whose energy and identity naturally match the type of man and relationship you desire.
How fast will I see changes?
- Feel emotionally safe receiving love
- Stop attracting emotionally unavailable men
- Become magnetic to emotionally mature, committed partners
- Show up soft, open, and confident without performing
- Trust yourself and your discernment
- Know how to receive, let go, and choose from clarity
- Feel calm, secure, feminine, and powerful in dating
You will become the woman aligned with the relationship you desire.
Love stops being a hope.
It becomes a by-product of who you are.
Will this make me “too soft”?
No.
You don’t lose your edge.
You lose your armor.
You become strong in a way that is grounded, receptive, elegant, and discerning.
Power without tension.
Softness without fear.
Standards without self-protection.
Because love, devotion, and commitment aren’t things you chase — they’re reflections of who you’re being. It’s time to reset the mirror
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