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Ep. 138 –  I Used to Bring Out the Worst in Men…Now I Bring Out the Winner in Them

I'm Anabell!

I help strong successful women build secure attachment so you can stop settling men with potential and confidently choose the ideal man for you.

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If you’ve ever felt frustrated by men going from hot and into you to cold and uninterested, or believed you had to be less successful, less ambitious, or less you to find love, this episode is for you. 

I’ll take you through my personal transformation from unknowingly bringing out the worst in men to inspiring them to step into their masculine role and cherish me.

In this episode, I share a life-changing perspective on how to bring out the winner in men rather than unintentionally pushing them away. I reveal the secret to inspiring a man to see you as the prize he would do anything and everything for. This isn’t about manipulation or playing games—it’s about understanding how men are wired and creating a connection that feels like a true partnership.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

– Why men are internally motivated and how this affects relationships.  

– The subtle ways women unintentionally push men away by trying to make things easier for them.  

– How to inspire a man to feel strong, capable, and deeply connected to you.  

– The long-term effects of bringing out the worst in a man vs. the benefits of bringing out the winner in him.  

– What I call “Winning Words©️” and how they can change the dynamic of your relationships.  

Key Takeaways:  

– “Men don’t fall in love with you because of what you do or what you have; it’s because of how they feel when they’re with you.”  

– “When you bring out the winner in him, you create a relationship where he feels honored, and you feel loved. It’s a win-win.”  

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Secure your spot for the The WINNER Method LIVE Masterclass on Tuesday December 17th @12pm PST – click here to learn more and secure your spot. 

Want more support? Click here to get on the waitlist for Segura, the coaching program that helps you break free from the insecure attachment patterns that hold you back in relationships & create the secure foundation needed to attract a loving masculine man ready for marriage.

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