If you’ve ever felt like the harder you try with a man, the further he seems to pull away—you’re not imagining it. In this episode, I’m breaking down The Sabotage Loop: the unconscious pattern that keeps high-achieving women chasing men instead of choosing them.
You’ll hear why chasing creates distance, how it keeps you stuck in what I call Problem Structure, and the exact mindset shift to move into Creation Structure—where you become magnetic to emotionally available men who actually want to invest in you.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
- The real reason chasing creates emotional distance (and it’s not about playing games).
- The hidden ways high-functioning women “chase” without realizing it.
- How Problem Structure keeps you looping in the same unsatisfying patterns.
- What Creation Structure is and why it’s the key to creating the relationship you truly want.
- The simple shift that stops the loop and puts you back in your power as the chooser.
Resources & Links Mentioned in This Episode:
Pdf Download of The Sabotage Loop – Click here to download it now.
Book – You’re Not Broken by Christopher M. Duncan
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Episode Quote:
“Love isn’t something you chase—it’s something you allow. The moment you choose yourself, you stop running after what’s running away and start attracting what wants to stay.”
NEXT STEPS & RESOURCES
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