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Ep. 144 – He Doesn’t Want Your Love. He Needs Your Trust & Respect.

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I help strong successful women build secure attachment so you can stop settling men with potential and confidently choose the ideal man for you.

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In this week’s Blooming Podcast episode, we uncover one of the most misunderstood dynamics in relationships: why loving a man isn’t enough to inspire his masculinity, leadership, and commitment. If you’re a woman who desires a secure, masculine man who protects, provides, and leads, this episode is your blueprint.

What You’ll Learn:

– The real reason your love isn’t making him step up—and what will.

– The critical difference between what men and women need in relationships.

– Why trust and respect are the fuel that power a man’s masculine energy.

– How your subconscious beliefs about masculine energy may be sabotaging your love life.

– The biggest mistake women make: choosing men based on potential instead of present character.

Key Takeaways:

1. Men don’t need your love; they need your trust and respect to feel strong, capable, and committed.

2. Respect isn’t about worshiping a man—it’s about believing in him, valuing who he is today, and not treating him like a project to fix.

3. Your behaviors reveal your subconscious beliefs about men, which can either inspire or diminish his masculinity.

4. Mirror neurons play a role in how men respond to your energy. When a man feels trusted and respected, he mirrors it back through love and commitment.

5. Choosing men based on potential sets you up for frustration. Instead, choose a man you respect and admire right now.

Resources Mentioned:

Download the FREE Guide: 25 Behaviors That Break Trust and Respect with a Man — Discover if you’re unknowingly sabotaging trust and respect in your relationships. Start shifting your relationship dynamics today. 

Want his love? Open your heart. 
Discover how to unlock any man’s masculine instinctive drive to adore you, be generous, and make you a priority in his life – all without risking getting rejected, wasting your time, losing your independence, or ever lowering your standards. Because when you open your heart, YOU become the woman he’ll do anything for. Click here to secure your free seat to the free upcoming masterclass, Available For Love: The Key To Unlock His Masculine Drive To Protect, Love, Give Generously & Make You A Priority

Join the Marriage Material membership community HERE for only $27 a month. This is the membership community of women who love & respect men and are committed to creating the relationship of their dreams. 

Want to take the first step towards creating the relationship of your dreams? You need to get crystal clear on the marriage you need and the role you play. Watch the free workshop, Marriage-Focused Goals: A Free Workshop, and join me as I guide you through my relationship goal process that actually works to create the marriage of your dreams! Watch this workshop that hundreds of women paid for, and it’s yours free now. Click here to watch it now.  

Want more support? Click here to get on the waitlist for Segura, the coaching program that helps you trust masculine energy to lead and feel completely secure and feminine with him. You’ll be the first to know when Segura, the mentorship program for all women, is open for enrollment again.

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