The Closure Code
Finally release your ex and open your heart for real love again.
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What if the only thing standing between you and the love you want… is the way you see yourself?
You’ve built a life, a business, a self you’re proud of — yet a part of your past still tugs at your energy.
It’s not longing. It’s loyalty.
Your subconscious is still loyal to the version of you who loved him, and to the story that once defined you.
Until you update that part of your mind, a small piece of your power stays locked in the past.
The Closure Code shows you how to bring it back — fast.
Right now, your subconscious is quietly shaping your love life.
It still stores the story. The love, the role you had, the “us", the future you planned, as if it’s happening right now.
That’s why you can be thriving on the outside and still feel stuck emotionally.
Your subconscious is simply being loyal… to an outdated version of you.
But loyalty can be rewritten.
And when you learn how to restructure the memories, meanings, and emotions your subconscious is holding onto, our mind, focus, and energy instantly return to you.
Getting over your ex isn’t about letting them off the hook.
It’s about letting yourself off the leash of the past.
Restructuring subconscious memories doesn’t erase your past, it extracts the wisdom and releases the weight.
You’ll remember everything clearly, but the emotions that used to drive your choices will no longer control them.
You’ll make decisions with the full intelligence of your experience, without the distortion of pain.
That’s power.
YOU’RE in the RIGHT PLACE
this is for the woman who:
Is done letting the past steal energy from her future.
Doesn’t want to talk about “healing” anymore, she wants to reclaim her life.
Knows she’s meant to lead, love, and create from power, not pain.
— You’re in the right place.
Is ready to trust her intuition again.
Working with Anabell
has been an amazing life changing experience.
It has been the greatest investment I have made in myself.
— M, private client
Over 4 private sessions, you’ll:
✨ Identify and clear subconscious fears of judgment, rejection, or “not being enough.”
✨ Rewire your beliefs about being seen, so visibility feels safe and empowering.
✨ Step into an authentic confidence that comes through naturally on screen.
✨ Align your energy with the service or product you’re selling—so your audience feels your certainty.
✨ Build subconscious comfort around marketing yourself online, so consistency becomes effortless.
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Decode.
Whether you still feel love, hate, resentment, or confusion toward your ex — those emotions are all signs of one thing: your subconscious still believes that relationship is active.
In this first step, we identify what your mind is still loyal to — the story, identity, or emotion that keeps you connected to the past.
You’ll see exactly how your subconscious is representing your ex (often without you realizing it) and begin to gently update that internal picture.
Once that shift happens, the emotional charge dissolves — whether it was anger, longing, or sadness — and you regain your energy, focus, and peace.
Results: Awareness of where you’re still holding on + emotional clarity.
Together, we’ll:
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Integrate.
I help your subconscious reorganize the love, memories, and lessons from that relationship so they become part of your strength — not your story.
You’ll carry forward the wisdom, self-trust, and standards that relationship gave you… without the emotional pull that used to drain your energy.
After this step, you can think about your ex with clarity and neutrality — and feel fully available for what’s next.
Results: Relief, peace, neutrality toward your ex, and emotional closure.
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Update Your Self-Concept
Once your subconscious has released the past, we install two new core qualities that align with the woman you want to be in love and in life.
These qualities become certain and automatic — built into your subconscious identity — so they no longer depend on effort, reminders, or emotional willpower.
Whether it’s calmness, confidence, patience, flexibility, or feminine openness, these traits become your default setting.
They shape how you think, feel, and respond — especially in dating and relationships.
You’ll notice yourself staying grounded instead of anxious.
Soft instead of guarded.
Open instead of overperforming.
You won’t have to try to be magnetic or secure — you’ll simply be that woman.
Because the qualities that once felt out of reach now live inside you as certainty.
Results: Confidence, emotional availability, readiness for love — without fear or longing.
“I had no idea love could feel this easy. I finally get it.”
— vanessa, private client
results you can expect:
You stop analyzing what went wrong and start choosing what’s next.
You stop replaying old stories and start designing new ones.
You stop people-pleasing, overthinking, and overexplaining — because your nervous system finally trusts you to lead.
You’ll think about your ex and feel neutrality.
Not numbness — clarity.
Not indifference — freedom.
ALL the PRETTY DETAILS
Timeline
3 private 75-minute sessions held virtually via Zoom.
Availability
I only work with 100 amazing women every year. Will you be one of them?
Investment
$697 (payment options available)
(please note: this price is increasing in Fall 2025)
KIND WORDS
"I thought I was over him but after this, it’s like my body finally got the memo."
I didn’t lose anything. I regained myself. It wasn’t emotional… it was powerful. Like flipping a switch back to me.
I feel calm, clear, and in control...like my past is just data now.” — Rachel
Frequently asked questions
What if I’m not sure I’m ready to let go?
That’s okay.
Most clients come in feeling that way. You don’t have to be ready — you just have to be willing.
This process honors both your love and your pain.
It doesn’t force you to let go; it helps your subconscious realize that it’s safe to.
What if I still have to see or communicate with my ex because of kids or business?
That’s actually who this work helps most. If you’re co-parenting or have shared responsibilities, you’ll still be able to communicate clearly and kindly — but without emotional volatility or reactivity.
You’ll notice that conversations feel calmer. You’ll respond instead of react. And you’ll be able to maintain friendly, respectful boundaries that support both you and your children.
Will this process make me stop caring about my ex completely?
Not at all. You’ll still care as a human being — but it will come from a grounded, adult place instead of emotional dependency or attachment.
You’ll feel compassion instead of craving, understanding instead of obsession. It’s not “I don’t care anymore.” It’s “I care, but I’m free.”
Is it normal that I still love my ex? Will this erase that?
Yes. Because this isn’t talk therapy or traditional “processing.” We work directly with your subconscious — the part of your mind that holds emotional patterns, associations, and identity.
When that level shifts, change happens fast.
It’s the same reason you can fall in love instantly, or get your heart broken in a moment.
The subconscious moves in moments, not months.
Will this make me forget my ex?
No — and that’s not the goal.
You won’t lose your memories or the meaningful moments you shared. You’ll simply remember them without pain, longing, or emotional pull.
After this work, you’ll be able to think of your ex or interact with them from a place of peace, neutrality, and sometimes even genuine gratitude.
It’s like keeping the lessons and love, but letting go of the ache.
Can this really happen in just 3 sessions?
Yes, it’s totally normal to still feel love. Love isn’t the problem — attachment is. This process helps you transform that attachment so that love becomes something you can hold without pain.
You’ll be able to honor what you shared and release what’s no longer aligned.
When you do that, you actually expand your capacity to love again — with someone new, from a whole heart.
What if I start dating again — will I lose my standards or rush into something new?
Quite the opposite.
When your heart is no longer stuck in the past, you become naturally more grounded, selective, and emotionally available.
You’ll approach love with clarity, not craving — and that’s what makes attraction and connection truly secure.
Will I still feel emotions after this?
Absolutely. You’ll still feel everything — just more cleanly.
Instead of your emotions controlling you, you’ll be able to feel them and move through them with ease.
This isn’t emotional numbness. It’s emotional freedom.
Does getting over my ex mean I’m excusing their behavior or forgetting what happened?
Absolutely. You’ll still feel everything — just more Not at all.
Letting go isn’t the same as approving of what happened — and it doesn’t make you naïve or weak.
When you release an emotional attachment at the subconscious level, you’re not erasing memories or lessons. You’re simply reorganizing how your mind stores them.
The pain, confusion, and longing stop driving your reactions — but the wisdom and clarity remain.
That’s what makes you stronger, not softer.
You’ll still remember what happened — but without the emotional charge that clouds your judgment.
It means your future choices come from grounded awareness, not unhealed emotion.
Restructuring subconscious memories doesn’t make you forget.
It makes you free — wise, calm, and capable of love without losing yourself again.
Your subconscious is loyal — but you’re the leader. When you tell it the story is complete, it listens.You don’t need to “heal.” You just need to reorganize your power so your future stops orbiting your past. You’ve done enough reflecting. It’s time to rewrite.
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