Attract a man that adores you, matches your effort and knows your value.
All without chasing him, proving your worth or lowering your standards.
All without chasing, proving your worth or lowering your standards.
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Private & Personalized One-On-One Coaching
Private & Personalized One-On-One Coaching
Chivalry isn't dead. You just had the wrong love strategy.
You don't have an issue attracting men. You've just been attracting and picking the ones with "potential."
You find yourself in relationships that drain your energy or make you feel anxious, yet somehow still leave you feeling alone. Maybe you’ve experienced the pain of feeling disconnected even when you’re together, and you wonder if a deeply connected, secure relationship is even possible.
You’re not alone. Many successful women struggle with navigating modern dating while carrying the weight of past emotional wounds and attachment fears.
These patterns can create roadblocks that make it challenging (and pretty much impossible) to attract and keep a loving, stable partner.
Your past has been getting in the way of partner you need in your life TODAY.
When you fix your internal compass, reaching your destination is inevitable
challenges you might be facing:
Attracting emotionally unavailable men.
The wrong man will always seem like a good choice when you're "starving" for love. These men leave you overwhelmed, overworked and under-loved. It's time we changed that.
Men are either the extreme of pleasure OR pain.
When you let your unhealthy subconscious parts pick your partner, you'll always attract love-bombers or selfish avoidant men. You're ready for a balanced healthy secure masculine man.
Feel anxious & alone even when you're in a relationship.
When you're used to chaos, confusion or picking based on only "chemistry", these relationships leave you feeling empty, missing true connection and only create more self abandonment. Finally get out of the vicious cycle of settling for men with potential.
“Every single woman needs this program in her life!
I recommend Anabell to everyone.”
— Lauren
You Need
an approach that actually works
This isn't dating advice.
It's transformational work that's healing the root cause issue.
Permanently.
calm & loving environments
Be able to approach dating from a place of joy, ease, and security. Once your Core Love Design is set to deep self love and trust, your ability to choose a great man is effortless and the new norm.
freedom to be yourself and be truly loved
When you grew up in an environment that didn't celebrate the unique girl you were, you subconsciously learned you weren't enough. Now, you'll know you deserve the best & won't settle.
SO LET ME INTRODUCE:
Secure a man that adores you, matches your effort and knows your value without chasing him, proving your worth or lowering your standards.
Course breakdown:
Module One
Build the transformative skill of secure attachment. Yes it can be learned and it's THE relationship game changer. Rewriting Your Core Love Design helps you feel deeply confident and joyful in your singleness AND flexible and feminine with him. Edit your inner "compass" to ONLY guide you towards love. No more men "with potential" ever again!
Teach Me Plz
Module Two
Now that you've undone your old patterns, it's time to create the Secure Feminine Foundation -- the secure tools to raise your relationship standards and deeply know your worth. Strong Detachment & Soft Connection are what we focus on in this module to cement those new healthy relationship habits for good.
Teach Me Plz
Module Three
Module three is The Feminine Attraction Accelerator and it's exactly what it sounds like. Learn the new secure relationship habits that draw only secure men to you and repel the low value guys. These are the secrets he doesn't want you know! They make him deeply magnetized to you, keep him interested and consistently initiating contact. Learn how to inspire his admiration and respect, making him feel motivated to rise to your standards. He'll feel a sense of challenge, feeling compelled to prove himself worthy of your attention. No more chasing, worrying or needing reassurance if he wants you. You KNOW he does.
Teach Me Plz
Module Four
Here I teach all about Detached Dating - the ability to observe him, connect but stay anchored in your own values. This gives you the peace and freedom to focus on your new amazing life while allowing you see a man for who he truly is, helping you consciously decide if he aligns with the love you deserve without any fear of rejection or loss. Never feel the need to ask how he feels or pressure him to commit again. The best part? This skillset can be used in relationships and in your career. Hello more money AND men! It's an abundance maker for sure.
Teach Me Plz
Module Five
Conscious Choosing may be my favorite module. Learn how to consciously choose the perfect man for you from a place of intention, values and relationship goals of your big beautiful future rather than subconsciously repeating the past. Imagine a partner you're proud of, trust implicitly and is ready, willing and able to love you exactly how you want and need. That's what you get from here on out.
Teach Me Plz
Module Six
Fully trust masculine energy to lead through the skill of Feminine Communication. Learn my famous Feminine Expression Model that organically inspires a man to step into his masculine. Allow yourself to be truly adored and trust his love for you. This dynamic is essential for a relationship success. He craves a strong feminine woman that relies on him to take charge and be responsible for your heart and now you actually ARE her.
Teach Me Plz
How does this sound?
THE RESULTS
01
Feeling confident, in control and comfortable in your skin every time he's gone or around.
02
Embody your secure feminine energy to become irresistible to men.
03
Begin to truly experience that there is an abundance of good men in the world.
04
Confidently expressing your true thoughts, feelings and needs to him without fear of loss or rejection.
05
Knowing exactly how he feels because he always shares his emotions and intentions.
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HOW IT WORKS
no. 01
Join Segura
We are open for enrollment and it's available to buy right now! Simply click below and you'll be able to secure your spot in the program.
no. 02
Receive Immediate Access
You'll receive an email with the links to our private community and our weekly zoom coaching calls. Check your inbox for access to all the resources.
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Transform Every Week!
The program is being rolled out live every week on our coaching call.
Don't worry if you can't make the live call. All coaching calls are recording and you have access to them all. Including any materials we use.
from michelle:
“This course changed my life. He tells me he loves me AND shows me he loves me. ”
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A year from now you
will have wished you started today....
so let's get you started!
“My relationships are better and my career and confidence are blossoming thanks to Anabell"
— Justina
You're stronger than you think.
But if you're anything like me, you need help to take your love life to the next level. You just want someone to tell you what actually works with men.
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YES, you read that right. Join now and you receive lifetime access to Segura. That means you have access to the private community, weekly coaching calls and all the recorded curriculum, tools and resources for life. I want to support you every day and provide you with community and coaching no matter what your relationship status and especially through life's changes.
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NEUROSCIENCE NERD, jesus lover, CHRONIC OVERACHiever, karaoke singing non-star
Hi, I'm Anabell,
Feminine Leadership Coach
From attracting emotionally unavailable men my entire life, settling for liars, losers and little boys and always feeling insecure & under-loved to finally feeling deeply confident of my worth and attracting high value men that are loyal, I owe it all to the work I now teach.
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i can help because i've been there
Five years ago, I was broke and broken, lonely and insecure.
I firmly believe that the same mindset that created the problem CANNOT solve it. After working with over 500 women to transform their deep limiting beliefs, I learned that new and healthier results come from renewing your mind. And your thoughts are created from your beliefs. You attract what you believe you deserve and this includes men. If you want to change your love life, it begins with going to your soul which holds the the programming for your results. That's what all my work focuses on. Together we access the deeper parts of you to find, understand and permanently remove the lies and replace them with the truth of who God says you are.
but nowI know how to help!
This program is the only one of its kind because...
IT's neuroscience backed & addresses the root cause
Other online "feminine embodiment" coaches and mentors will sell you a digital product or coaching program they learned from yet another coach they paid. None of that pyramid-scheme stuff here. I'm a professional, ethical and educated entrepreneur that prides herself in studying from experts and personally being mentored by some of the best doctors, therapists and professors in the world.
I bring researched backed and neuroscience based theories and strategies about attachment, connection and the male and female brains. This work helps women have real behavior change that's permanent and extremely easy and simple to apply. Did I mention I'm focused on helping women make self development financially affordable too? Not only will you have transformational results but anyone at any income level can easily afford my programs. You get to reap the benefits.
This program includes everything
This program includes
Perfect love casts out all fear.
In Segura, you'll learn how secure attachment creates true self love & self trust and how that perfect love allows you to truly show up and attract a man that will happily love you EXACTLY the way you need.
everything
you need
to love & be loved
you need
To
love &
be loved
This for you if:
is
You’re ready to break free from patterns of anxious or avoidant attachment.
YOu're done attracting emotionally unavailable men
You desire a secure, committed relationship with a masculine partner
It's probably for you if...
not
You’re looking for quick dating tips rather than a comprehensive journey toward secure love.
You’re not open to exploring and healing past emotional wounds.
YOU think men are the reason why you're single.
Let's heal. for good.
SO WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR?
Let's take a closer look!
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QUESTIONS
When does the program begin?
Our first group mentorship call on is Thursday, December 5th at 12pm PST. Our weekly calls are every Thursday at 12 pm PST thereafter.
How do I access the program?
Right after you join Segura, you will receive an email with access to our private community and zoom links to our first call on December 5th. Check your inbox because all the details are there! Didn't receive an email? Contact our team at support@anabellingleton.com and we'll get you all the links and access. You have access to the program 24 hours a day, 7 days a week for a lifetime. CLICK HERE TO TAKE A SNEAK PEAK AT THE MODULES AND WHAT WE COVER EACH WEEK.
Can I join Segura if I'm in a relationship?
Yes! This program is for single women but women already in a relationship benefit from strengthening their secure attachment in themselves. This program is for YOU but it will definitely benefit your partner or partner-to-be!
How much time will be required of me per week to do the work?
You must actually do the work in this program if you want to heal and create secure attachment. One way insecurely attached adults avoid their legitimate suffering is by staying in their heads. This involves obsessing about things, analyzing, discussing, reading and spending lots of energy in trying to figure things out. Insecurely attached adults have a great need to figure things out because their parents were unpredictable adult children themselves. Sometimes they parented you as adults; sometimes they parented you as wounded children. Sometimes they were in their addictions, sometimes not. What resulted was confusion and unpredictability. This unpredictability caused your continued need to figure things out. And until you heal the past, you will continue to try to figure it out. Staying in one's head is also an ego defense. By obsessing on things, one does not have to feel. To feel anything is to tap into the immense reservoir of frozen feelings that are bound by your wounded child's toxic shame. So I repeat, you must actually do the work in this program if you wish to heal and transform. Simply attending the weekly calls will not create deep change. The only way out is to go through. I welcome you to this transformative work!
What if I can't make it to the weekly mentorship calls?
Every single call is recorded and available to watch within a few hours. You will receive an email giving you access to the calls. If you have a question or something you need support with but you know you can't make it to a call, you can submit a question and Anabell will answer it on the call and you can watch her response on the playback.
What is the refund policy?
This program is non-refundable. It's time to be all-in on yourself and commit to transforming your life. You're ready to stop playing small and finding reasons to leave when it's uncomfortable and finding reasons to "get your time or money back" if it doesn't go the way you want. Men only commit to YOU to the degree that you commit to YOURSELF! This program WORKS when you work it. Life changes when YOU change.
What if I want private 1:1 calls with Anabell, can I upgrade?
If you want private and extremely personalized coaching and wish to upgrade to 1:1, you can upgrade. This is a 6-month commitment that includes private texting/voice messaging support for going deeper in between calls. I only accept 6 clients at a time. Please DM on Instagram or email Anabell directly to take advantage of this coaching opportunity. We will have consult call so I can learn about your specific goals if we're aligned, offer you a spot on my private calendar.
What's the difference between this coaching program and therapy?
This program is not intended to replace any therapy or therapy group you might be involved in. In fact, it should enhance your therapy work. If you are an adult victim of sexual abuse or severe emotional battering or if you have been diagnozed as mentally ill or have a history of mental illness in your family, professional help is essential for you. While this work is can be extremely powerful and has been highly therapeutic for hundreds of woman and men, it is not intended as a magical "how-to potion." Another caution: if you are in an active addiction, unfortunately you are out of your control and out of touch with your true feelings. You must modify that behavior if you want to benefit from this work. Please seek professional help first.
How do I know this program will work for me?
To get the best results, this course will require your commitment to yourself and your healing. The results on the other side of that commitment are so worth it! Many former clients have had incredible results even by committing 30 minutes to an hour a few times a week (about 2-3 hours a week in total.) When you work, you WILL feel and see results. Many women partner with other women in the program to stay accountable to the exercises!
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