Hey everyone, I am pumped to bring you another episode of Blooming Podcast.
In this episode, I am answering the question-does healing remove your ambition? Do I believe this is true? What caused this to happen? What do you do when healing seems to dampen your ambition?
I’m gonna tell you guys how I feel about that based on some of my own current experiences with this. Healing has made me question my business and whether I even want to continue with it. It’s like a whole new perspective has opened up for me as it often involves facing your past traumas, working through emotional baggage, and developing a deeper understanding of yourself. It’s like peeling back the layers and getting to the core of who you are.
It has been really enlightening for me as I am discovering my new identity and the next step I want to take. Join me on my podcast as I delve into the fascinating connection between healing and ambition, and uncover the transformative insights that await us. Don’t miss out, listen now!
FROM THIS EPISODE-
“When she did therapy and got a lot of stuff cleaned up, she realized, okay. I don’t have to do everything for everybody. I am important too. It’s not just about people pleasing. And now, she’s like overcorrected and she had to get back to the, before afterward it was like forget everybody.
It’s all about me. She’d overcorrected. Before it was about everybody, then it was all about her. So then she had to get to a happy medium. it takes a while for your brain to integrate this new information into your conscious mind. This is all subconscious stuff.”
“ And this question of the more you heal, the less ambitious you get it. That can happen to a lot of people. your work or ambition is driven out of these, these wounded places that once, that that wound is healed. There’s no more need, for ambition or for success, right? it looks different or it could be gone. I felt like it was gone. It freaked me out because what I had to reconcile was I’ve been working unconsciously to feel worthy. Now I feel like I don’t have to work, and then I had to say, wait, wait, wait.
“So now moving forward, I had to get really clear on this new identity of who I am. If I’m not somebody that, needs to be needed at work I’m somebody that just serves and shows up in my coaching program simply to help people perform at their highest level, and that’s where I wanna orient people’s gaze. Like Bloom is still there. It’s gonna be a foundational program, but this new version of me, this new program…”
QUICK HIGHLIGHTS FROM THIS EPISODE:
- My last 8 months of therapy experience
- Feel like doing lots of work but most of the work is still not done.
- If you’re not able to easily go, it’s because there’s a part of you on the break.
- When you heal, you may fall into the extreme urge not to do anything
- when we make our work so much more, it creates a codependent relationship.
- Pivoting myself to High-performance Coach
RESOURCES FOR YOU:
-Watch this episode on Youtube HERE
-Link to Profit First Book – HERE
-Link to my CPA firm Fit For Profit – Shannon
-Want to work with me in the BLOOM coaching program? Click HERE to get on the waitlist or join now if we are enrolling!
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-Get coached via all the great videos on my YouTube channel HERE
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ABOUT BLOOMING PODCAST:
Hosted by Anabell Ingleton, a multiple 6-figure earning Coach, she shares new episodes every Wednesday on all things personal transformation, growth and evolving into and connecting to your Highest Self. Anabell shares concepts, tips and actual tools for you to use in your life today to help you remove the blocks that are keeping you fully blooming and creating the dream life you deserve. Anabell has solo episodes as well as other amazing coaches, entrepreneurs and her past clients themselves sharing what they do to fully bloom and change their lives. Anabell has served hundreds of clients in her 1:1 coaching practice where she helped men and women heal from the effects of stressful past experiences and used those thousands of hours of deep knowledge to create Bloom, a group coaching program where she helps women grow their confidence and self-love so they can go from “I can’t do that, I’m not “insert positive attribute here”….. to a confident, happy and secure woman who’s in charge of her schedule, decisions, relationships and future.